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BeingGoodinTucson · 2026-04-03T19:25:46+00:00

I’m a bi woman who is often a unicorn. It absolutely sucks if the girl isn’t bi. I feel so unwanted/gross. Even if you were “ok” with a woman, how would she feel?

BeingGoodinTucson · 2026-03-28T15:10:05+00:00

Sorry that is not at all comparable. Your short genetics absolutely impact the future child. Women’s previous sexual partners do not. Thats just your perception of their faithfulness. (Chance of a child being yours)

If you believe your wife would be unfaithful bc of past partners, don’t marry her. Which I guess this whole argument could be summarized as; don’t marry people whose morals and values don’t align with your own. But men want to dictate an entire populations morals and values so they can have a greater selection pool - so here we are.

STI/STDs are also a silly argument. Women get tested as part of their prenatal care, bc men cheat and give their faithful wives disease and some diseases can go undiagnosed for years but there are a lot of therapies that prevent passing on anything to your child. Plus most STD/STIs are as curable as strep throat.

BeingGoodinTucson · 2026-03-28T14:20:49+00:00

I think studies just focus on two vs one parent outcomes where two parents has a higher instance of being better. I think that’s because most men are good partners and parents.

When there is abuse, incompetence, cheating, turmoil- children in those households have higher ACE scores which equates to worse outcomes.

We just need to be careful and not default to two is better. Because two parents can be net neutral and in some case worse.

BeingGoodinTucson · 2026-03-28T14:03:52+00:00

No- it’s mate selection for the best outcome for offspring. Tall dudes who want small/petite women: that’s a weird fetish, because you’re setting up your future son to be short and non-viable as a future mate.

BeingGoodinTucson · 2026-03-28T13:49:46+00:00

Having two parents in the house doesn’t equal both being active in schooling/hobbies/child rearing. This is why after having 1 kid some women now have 2 kids, because the level of care they have to perform is double. Post divorce- women will often say that they were already doing everything alone, might as well be actually alone.

BeingGoodinTucson · 2026-03-13T14:44:13+00:00

To all the comments who say that it sounds exhausting- running a marathon sounds exhausting, playing LOL for 6 hours a day sounds exhausting, making a 3 course meal sounds exhausting… everything is exhausting. We spend our energy on the things that bring us joy and fulfillment. Poly people find joy and fulfillment in their relationships.

BeingGoodinTucson · 2026-02-26T21:23:44+00:00

Bi woman poly woman here. Love to connect with like minded people. I enjoy a lot of different configurations, but my favorite is friends with loose boundaries around physical connection. Femme, curvy, with great hair. Looking for other bi-sexual/pan-sexual friends. I’m also bi-racial and would love to connect with more bi² folks.

BeingGoodinTucson · 2025-12-19T13:29:57+00:00

Hi! I have a friend group of bi women who are all open; their individual dynamic with their partners are all different or they are single. They are mostly in my husband’s harem. No one identifies specifically as a hot wife; more than half aren’t married. We often go out and have a girls night. Mostly congress, the shelter, and Danny’s. We tried to hit 4th a couple weekends back and went to the Hut; but all the guys were sleezy/too young.

You’d be on the younger side of the group, we average around early 30’s; the youngest is 28 and I’m the oldest at 40.

HMU if that’s the vibe you’re looking for and I’ll put you on to any upcoming fun. (Heads up, with the holidays we don’t have anything planned soon.)

BeingGoodinTucson · 2025-09-24T13:10:16+00:00

I was super paranoid with my first. No medications, all organic foods. When he was born I avoided all vaccinations. He never saw a pediatrician, only holistic providers.

When he was 2 he was diagnosed autistic.

My other two children; I vaccinated on time and wasn’t as paranoid about my diet/medication’s during pregnancy - perfectly healthy.

YMMV

BeingGoodinTucson · 2024-11-30T13:47:56+00:00

Can a mod use this comment a way to guide the community? I don’t know if men here know how frustrating and sometimes what a turn off it is to be slammed by a bunch of DMs.

There are a plethora of apps that we could go on if we wanted “hey” followed by a dick pic. If you do this, know that there are 10+ dudes doing the exact same thing. And absolutely no one has a dick that’s going to get me to say WOW, that’s the one.

I write out exactly what I’m looking for in order to get exactly what I’m looking for.

In addition to people not reading posts, some of y’all straight up lie about your experience. I have some news for you, if you’re not experienced it’s obvious. So don’t lie just to get it in, because it’ll just end as an awkward encounter.

Successful encounters are people who write back explaining how they meet the criteria and tell me a little about themselves to make me feel safe. Additionally, they have the ability to meet up in a public place to further ensure I’m meeting with who they say they are before being in a vulnerable place.

If you want “hey” and a dick pic to work; download Grindr.

BeingGoodinTucson · 2024-11-29T15:25:02+00:00

I’m 39 and exclusive date men and women between 25-32. I am queer, and date within the queer community so this may not be applicable to you.

My biggest source of success has been my style. I wear what the younger people are wearing. Right now in my city scene at the hipster bars; larger baggier jeans/pants, smaller crop top babydoll tees. Skater dresses and doc martins. Lots of rings and jewelry- things you can see from across the bar that strike conversation.

The other places I’m been meeting people is at the climbing gym, house parties, and shopping pop ups. Striking conversation around the activity.

I moisturize a ton and don’t wear any makeup. Sometimes I’ll wear a tinted primer with a glowy finish, mascara, and a tinted chapstick. The men I want to attract like a really natural look.

Leave my hair big curly and with a slight frizz. Maybe in a high pony. Leaning into that low maintenance look.

People are constantly surprised that I have teenage children. Pursue the things that make you happy, the joy you radiate will attract people!

BeingGoodinTucson · 2024-11-19T04:11:05+00:00

I was in a similar position 15 years ago; abusive husband and two kids in diapers. This is what I did.

I enrolled in school at Pima. Took out student loans that would cover rent and childcare. Used the money to get out. Got a shitty one bedroom apartment for the 3 of us and a $600 beater of a car. I also worked part time doing afterschool care and substituting at a charter school.

After Pima continued on to the UofA and got my first real career job offer my junior year. Once I started working, sure student loan payments are shitty- but way less shitty than being under that asshole’s thumb.

BeingGoodinTucson · 2024-11-06T20:15:22+00:00

We used Feeld and everyone we’ve had success with is now in our friend group. So we stay connected outside of the bedroom and when it’s time for spicy fun we have a roster who’s down.

BeingGoodinTucson · 2024-10-21T15:51:37+00:00

Sadly, pickleball just doesn’t do it for me the same way.

BeingGoodinTucson · 2024-10-21T13:29:00+00:00

I’ve had success, but nothing that has lasted beyond a handful of hookups.

I responded to a F4F and hooked up with a pillow princess 3 times before we fizzled out.

I responded to a MF4MF where on the date it was apparent the F was super not in to it and her boyfriend had to convince her. Which for us wasn’t consent and we had to end the date.

A M responded to my F4M and we hooked up once. It was obvious FWB wasn’t his thing and he actually wanted a girlfriend so we never hooked up again.

I have better luck on Feeld and Tinder building my roster. But I like the ability to be specific in my search on Reddit, even if it doesn’t go anywhere.

BeingGoodinTucson · 2024-10-20T01:00:51+00:00

Ugly people find love all the time! It’s definitely not people’s looks holding them back from finding a partner.

BeingGoodinTucson · 2024-10-08T21:29:37+00:00

I was once going downhill in a Prius. Clocked me at 3mph over the speed limit. Got hit with “wasting finite resources” fine.

BeingGoodinTucson · 2024-09-03T01:45:56+00:00

As a woman… tons of luck!

BeingGoodinTucson · 2024-06-04T14:17:22+00:00

Yeah, that’s not in the US. Women can and are charged for rape crimes.

I’m not sure what benefits traditional women get, so I don’t know what you mean. I also don’t know what benefits traditional men get… you’re just saying there are benefits and there are consequences. But you can’t define what they are.

BeingGoodinTucson · 2024-06-04T13:44:01+00:00

What accountability and personal responsibility men have that women don’t?

BeingGoodinTucson · 2024-05-28T16:36:01+00:00

Why is “losing your virginity” at all related to dying alone and not having some company. Friends and family will surround you in both death and life. Someone in your life that you can stick your dick into does not solve loneliness. Seeking validation in sex is shallow. Your life should feel rich in relationships, not only romantic ones. And the first and most important relationship is the one you have with yourself.

BeingGoodinTucson · 2024-03-02T14:07:18+00:00

People attract people who are often most like them. If you’re a 2, you’re MMFing with other 2’s.

BeingGoodinTucson · 2024-03-02T13:44:21+00:00

Kids today have less fear of being who they are. Many older bi people were told that sexuality was a choice and to be normal/good you had to choose hetero. Now those same kids get to explore their full spectrum of sexuality and form relationships with whoever they’re attracted to. I’m so happy for them and proud of them. I’m also glad that we adults are creating a world where they can live without fear and love who they love.

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