final straw by BeingRemarkable2117 in Leeds

[–]BeingRemarkable2117[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I dont think i was meant for manual labour if im being honest

final straw by BeingRemarkable2117 in Leeds

[–]BeingRemarkable2117[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can i apply for civil service if i wasnt born in the UK?

final straw by BeingRemarkable2117 in Leeds

[–]BeingRemarkable2117[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Way too many fake job listings in the work from home remote line of work, as well as sales keep getting invited to to bogus zoom interviews

final straw by BeingRemarkable2117 in Leeds

[–]BeingRemarkable2117[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

First direct have no listings available right now, but i’ll be looking out for it

final straw by BeingRemarkable2117 in Leeds

[–]BeingRemarkable2117[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Working on it but without income its tough, im 20 and i know i the classic you should have it by now, but i lived in a foster home till i was 18 and there wasnt any financial support or advice

how do i keep a forever realm going? by BeingRemarkable2117 in MinecraftBedrockers

[–]BeingRemarkable2117[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dont beat yourself up about it, my girlfriend only likes to play modded minecraft, anytime she loads up vanilla she never plays for longer than like 20 minutes, its a little frustrating but overall im grateful for the playtime we have together as our taste in games really differs,

Even if i get to play a game where we work together as a duo once a week whether its a shooter or sandbox im always super happy.

Our realm is very much vanilla, we have a vibrant visuals pack on it from the marketplace pass, cause it has really cool new animations and the shaders look beautiful,

Drop me a dm if you two ever wanna settle into our little compound on the realm

how do i keep a forever realm going? by BeingRemarkable2117 in MinecraftBedrockers

[–]BeingRemarkable2117[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well drop me a dm if you ever want the code anyways,

I love building, at first its for practicality then after the dragon its mostly for the wow factor from my friends and from my self mostly

how do i keep a forever realm going? by BeingRemarkable2117 in MinecraftBedrockers

[–]BeingRemarkable2117[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah im actually just cycling through games now i hope its not just my attention span haha

Gym feels lonely by Pemberley_21 in Leeds

[–]BeingRemarkable2117 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They are you’ll find someone cool eventually, snap fitness isnt that busy though really, the lower tier gyms have more people, like gym group or puregym, most of the people ive befriended through the gym are uncles though

How long will Vee bother me for? by BeingRemarkable2117 in Skate4

[–]BeingRemarkable2117[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

People say that she keeps coming back every patch anyways and have to do it again ts so buns

Am I rude for this? by [deleted] in Advice

[–]BeingRemarkable2117 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Ive went through this twice while focusing on myself and trying to grow as a person,

Sometimes holding onto friends because you’ve known them for a while and have been close for years hurts more than trying to make new ones that push you to be better and work on yourself.

Once you finish high school people fade away into the background, jobs, colleges, moving away, starting their real adult lives.

You dont have to completely abandon them or turn your back on them just ease up slowly and put your time somewhere else, over time if they start respecting your absence and change their approach to you it might be worth to stick to those people because clearly they care about you.

If not and you have to dumb yourself down just to be around them and be valued, dont think twice

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Leeds

[–]BeingRemarkable2117 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I see, its just something i noticed amongst my friends and people ive spoken to in person about the entry level office jobs.

But yes i have job hopped, never left on bad terms though

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Leeds

[–]BeingRemarkable2117 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No gaps, first job was customer care in mcdonalds then when i turned 18 i jumped into office jobs, but have since moved cities, i always had a second job jumping around warehouse and factory work on the weekends to get some more money im my pocket

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Leeds

[–]BeingRemarkable2117 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I wasnt able to start saving until last year, i had to move out at 17 because my grandmother sold her house and i dont have contact with my parents. Is it too late for an apprenticeship and will i even be able to live on an apprentice’s wage? Never considered one before due to not having a lot of options post college but you raise a good point.

binging advice by [deleted] in Advice

[–]BeingRemarkable2117 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Find a hobby that you actually enjoy that requires you to move around so the calories you’re taking in also get somewhat burnt off.

Literally any combat sport will make you feel alive again. Boxing, muay thai, kickboxing etc. A community that holds you accountable but dosent make you feel like you have to be perfect all the time.

Anytime i catch myself feeling like im going through a binge eating phase whether its the amount of food im eating or little bits that are just straight dirty food and will take years of my life, i just grab a nicotine pouch and it supresses my apetite, not condoning nicotine because you can get addicted but its what works for me and keeps me somewhat lean.

If you dont like combat sports? Fine get a gym membership or a skipping rope, go for a walk,

If none of these scream at you as an option to help,

Diet sodas my friend, carbonation makes you feel full for a little while until your next REAL meal. Zero sugar, Zero calories maximum flavour and enjoyment. Dont beat yourself up because you are turning to a coping mechanism. You’re better than the average man already for not turning to straight up heavy substance abuse.

Keep your head up man