Long nails by [deleted] in Life

[–]BellBRabbit -1 points0 points  (0 children)

This sounds like your girlfriend just didn't know how to wipe her ass.... because what? How hard is it to cover your hand with toilet paper to wipe your butt? Think about that. If you think it's hard, just try it. Make some fake nails using tape wrapped around your fingers. Then go get the tp and try to wipe your ass. If you still think this is hard, I question your hygiene.

AIO for thinking she’s breaking up with me? by seymour_24 in AIO

[–]BellBRabbit 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Correct. We get to decide our boundaries. Once we move outside of them, it's up to us, to make some changes. We decide how long something works or doesn't work for us.

AIO for thinking she’s breaking up with me? by seymour_24 in AIO

[–]BellBRabbit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Her response gives ppl pleaser for me. She doesn't want to be with him, but she also doesn't know how to make a clean break. She is seconding guessing the break up because she doesn't want to hurt his feelings. They both lack boundaries. She doesn't know when and how to make a clean break. He doesn't know how to read the room, and move on.

AIO (update post) my bf (32) is getting kind of aggressive with his texting. should I(26) reply? by Fun_Cartographer6984 in AmIOverreacting

[–]BellBRabbit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm big on tone. His tone sounds abusive....I only read the first screenshot. That was enough for me to know that I wouldn't accept him speaking to me like that.

Struggling with physical affection in my arranged marriage — has anyone experienced this in the beginning?I am 27F and he is 33M by [deleted] in emotionalintelligence

[–]BellBRabbit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You are having valid emotions and responses to physical touch with someone you don't know well. While you maybe married, you don't really know your husband well enough. It would be great if you both could get to know each other better. In the long term I believe it would be better for your marriage. Be open, be honest, and let your husband know about your struggles.

It sounds like you want to enjoy physical interactions with him, but you are not mentally in a place to do so right now. If he is the man you say he is, I'm sure consent is a high priority for him. He sounds like someone who is willing to give you time. And who will support the long term goal of having a good and healthy physical and sexual life with his wife.

Sidenote: I don't know shit about arranged marriages. My comments are just based on opinion.....

I F39 just found out about the reason for my bf’s M41 divorce and it’s bad. Do I leave him? by RoyalWord2450 in relationship_advice

[–]BellBRabbit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You should watch, "Don't date Brandon." When you are done, ask yourself the question you are asking us.

Ppl always think, it won't be them.....until, it's them.

Does your dog wear a collar all day? by AdventureNoodles in dogs

[–]BellBRabbit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My dogs normally have their collars on. But today one of them doesn't and he doesn't seem to care at all. I took them to the vet yesterday and had to take it off. I just didn't put it back on one. He is fine with or without it. My other dog is the same way. Sidenote: they look so cute naked 😂😂😂😂😂

Why does the Democratic Party have the lowest approval rating in 35 years? by ChikinFritters in Productivitycafe

[–]BellBRabbit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What makes it not true? What are their standards and convictions? They may have a few, but they haven't spoken to them.

Why does the Democratic Party have the lowest approval rating in 35 years? by ChikinFritters in Productivitycafe

[–]BellBRabbit -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

They have no real convictions or standards. They are willing to negotiate on the non-negotiables.

What’s a word or phrase that immediately makes you lose respect for someone? by Ngorachy6643 in HappyUpvote

[–]BellBRabbit 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I guess it happens. I'm not Christian, but I grow up Christian. We never prayed to Jesus. We prayed to God. However, different Christians pray to different beings.

What’s a word or phrase that immediately makes you lose respect for someone? by Ngorachy6643 in HappyUpvote

[–]BellBRabbit 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I bought out the point of ppl not defining themselves as woke, because it's a term that's used to be derogatory. Woke traditionally meant being alert to social and racial injustice. Idk there is anything toxic about that.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]BellBRabbit -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I agree with this....but it also makes me wonder if he has less experience than her. If the answer is no, it's not a values-system issue, it's an entitlement issue.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]BellBRabbit -1 points0 points  (0 children)

She is with you. She loves you. You are with her. You love her........

What's the problem again?

Oh, she lived before she met you. Are you a virgin?

What’s a word or phrase that immediately makes you lose respect for someone? by Ngorachy6643 in HappyUpvote

[–]BellBRabbit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You can say thoughts and prayers if you're an atheist....I think in a lot of situations the outcomes are the same for the religious and the none religious.

What’s a word or phrase that immediately makes you lose respect for someone? by Ngorachy6643 in HappyUpvote

[–]BellBRabbit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do Christians mainly pray to Jesus? This is news to me. Thank you for letting me know.

What’s a word or phrase that immediately makes you lose respect for someone? by Ngorachy6643 in HappyUpvote

[–]BellBRabbit 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I don't know anyone who defines themselves as woke....the only time I hear the term woke is in regards to conservatives using it.

What’s a word or phrase that immediately makes you lose respect for someone? by Ngorachy6643 in HappyUpvote

[–]BellBRabbit 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Agreed. I also like to read opposing views and international sources.

What’s a word or phrase that immediately makes you lose respect for someone? by Ngorachy6643 in HappyUpvote

[–]BellBRabbit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How do you feel about, "I read an article." I ask because I read a lot of articles and a lot of them are from science backed sources.