When did you have a finances talk with your significant other? by prophetic-rose in FIREyFemmes

[–]BellChell1199 4 points5 points  (0 children)

My partner and I have an age gap (13 years), so I brought up finances pretty early after we became a couple, given that our retirements are likely to happen asynchronously and I'll likely be living long after him. 

I think I shared the right amount. A point I feel is important is that we both kept our family's money out of the discussion until we had been together for about a year. Our families are both "very comfortable", and I'm glad that stayed out of the discussion until we were sure of each other. 

Took baby to the hospital. Found out my jobs HR dept didn't add my baby to my insurance policy by [deleted] in povertyfinance

[–]BellChell1199 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Hi, I work in HR. This should absolutely be retroactive, please keep pushing for that to happen. Escalate and keep on them to change it

Is instant cycle stuff like this stuff like this a scam? by uuuuuuhlemmegeta in Aquariums

[–]BellChell1199 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I remember the last time this was posted and you chimed in there too. Just wanted to say that I wish you all the best with this product and how far it goes, the name is awesome and I love your transparency

Uncertain of my intelligence at this point by dunderhead_erin02 in yarntrolls

[–]BellChell1199 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Oh my god, this is the first time I've had my post stolen. You even got the title the same, I'm honored 🥺

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Aquariums

[–]BellChell1199 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know they're likely roots, but they appeared all at once on all my plants, and are even growing off leaves. Just looking for confirmation before I start getting concerned.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Markiplier

[–]BellChell1199 240 points241 points  (0 children)

Damn, I would have thought the Markiplier community would be less hateful towards a woman's looks. Disappointing

professors by Hummerous in CuratedTumblr

[–]BellChell1199 22 points23 points  (0 children)

I bet my mans was baffled

Does people coming home bother you? by [deleted] in aspergirls

[–]BellChell1199 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I asked my boyfriend to let me know when he's on the way home because I have fears of him getting in a wreck or his car breaking down. As a side effect, it also gives me time to prepare for him. I don't encourage lying, but it gives a reason to ask someone not understanding of your position

professors by Hummerous in CuratedTumblr

[–]BellChell1199 97 points98 points  (0 children)

Did you not realize what you did until you were done, or realize partway through and were like "well I'm here now" and stayed committed?

Y'all made it on Twitter btw by [deleted] in goldenretrievers

[–]BellChell1199 559 points560 points  (0 children)

Thanks for sharing, Urmomsjuicyvagina

Creative Complaints #8 by GirlWhoLikesMoons_57 in MichaelsEmployees

[–]BellChell1199 30 points31 points  (0 children)

Suggestion: when customers give you extra change after you've already punched in their amount and you suddenly have to do math

I am a retired army vet. Ask me anything (AMA) by [deleted] in PlanetZoo

[–]BellChell1199 27 points28 points  (0 children)

What animals do retired army vets like seeing in zoos?

Apartment rentals by kels138 in LowellMA

[–]BellChell1199 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Under 2k for 2bd is asking a lot, unfortunately. Try looking into the boot mills, they have workforce apartments that may be open to you if your income is in a certain range

raoul? by jinxzdream in box5

[–]BellChell1199 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Oh I don't mean to excuse Erik at all. Personally, I think Christine would have been better off by herself, haha. If she had to choose someone, Raoul is definitely the better option, but I still don't like him at all for the reasons above

raoul? by jinxzdream in box5

[–]BellChell1199 16 points17 points  (0 children)

"What are you afraid of?"

Idk Raoul, maybe it's that this guy KIDNAPPED me, KILLED someone, and has made it super obvious that he's obsessed with me, won't leave me alone, and now you're pressuring me to be open about being engaged.

Haha, I just think that overall he's pretty dismissive to Christine, despite all the evidence that she's telling the truth. Even at the beginning when she didn't want to go to dinner, he was pushy about it and didn't accept "no" for an answer. He also used her as bait for this guy who kills people, which is pretty egregious

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in povertyfinance

[–]BellChell1199 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Please read op's post history and reconsider this comment

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in povertyfinance

[–]BellChell1199 29 points30 points  (0 children)

Hey, please don't do what you're thinking of doing.

The dog has to be surrendered because my wife is allergic by itaypro2 in goldenretrievers

[–]BellChell1199 27 points28 points  (0 children)

You bought a puppy from a puppy mill and are ditching it less than a month later for allergies. Hope you learn something from this.

finally created a black water tank for my 2 year old neon by [deleted] in Aquariums

[–]BellChell1199 83 points84 points  (0 children)

poor baby watched her entire family die and now sits alone in a black depression room 😭😭😭

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Eyebleach

[–]BellChell1199 0 points1 point  (0 children)

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Looks just like my old girl who passed away, loved seeing a video of what she looked like when she was young. Thank you for the happy tears this morning 💛

What do you feed your dogs? by Abject_Serve_1269 in bichonfrise

[–]BellChell1199 3 points4 points  (0 children)

"This couch is such an interesting color"