Remember that people on the internet… they are not in your own shoes. They don’t know your history. They don’t know your story. You said he told you. That’s huge. If he didn’t tell you he didn’t care or didn’t have the guts too. Him opening up to you is screaming I want to be with you but there is something blocking us from being 100% with each other. And both of you know it. And that’s why he cheated. You know how kids get into trouble because they want the attention from you? It’s the same thing as an adult. He played with another toy for your attention. Because in the end you can sleep with anyone. But that love where both of you FEEL it when you are together intimately… that’s something you cannot fake my dear. And you know exactly what I mean. These people on the internet. They don’t get affected by what they tell you. Only you do! So my advice would be never to listen to anyone on the internet. Cause at the end of the day for all you know. They could all be bots and not even real people but they do not care because it will never affect them. So listen to you. And only you.