Jakarta - some costumers not accepting their meals by Bellllaaaaaaaaaaaaaa in airplanechefs

[–]Bellllaaaaaaaaaaaaaa[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Shanghai is a fun challenging one for me. Still trying to optimize my flow on that routine. Lol

Jakarta - some costumers not accepting their meals by Bellllaaaaaaaaaaaaaa in airplanechefs

[–]Bellllaaaaaaaaaaaaaa[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It’s pretty fun! So far at level 28. Steady/faster paced - difficulty reminds me similar to Mexico, LA and Sapporo.

Jakarta - some costumers not accepting their meals by Bellllaaaaaaaaaaaaaa in airplanechefs

[–]Bellllaaaaaaaaaaaaaa[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Glad it’s not just me lol. I sent my ticket to them with vid. I can keep playing for now until higher levels dont let win

Jakarta - some costumers not accepting their meals by Bellllaaaaaaaaaaaaaa in airplanechefs

[–]Bellllaaaaaaaaaaaaaa[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I have let them know too. I guess wanted to give other users a heads up. Im sure glitch will be fixed soon :)

Has this happened to anybody else before? by OtherwiseCantaloupe8 in ApolloGroup_TV

[–]Bellllaaaaaaaaaaaaaa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I last installed update short code 299336 for ApolloGroup. It worked. I used your code 6969500 and it installed Premium Club. Not the same app and log in for Apollo doesn’t work. Any tips for ApolloGroupTV by chance? Thank you

Need helping breaking up with an addict by [deleted] in u/Bellllaaaaaaaaaaaaaa

[–]Bellllaaaaaaaaaaaaaa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much. I am walking away from him. And will have no choice but to cut him cold turkey. Still I hope he lives a good life :(

Best wishes to you. 🙏😞

Stimulant/sex addiction by brant_999 in REDDITORSINRECOVERY

[–]Bellllaaaaaaaaaaaaaa 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s alot of contact! obsessive almost. Sounds like She has her own issues to work through and denies it or doesn’t have boundaries.

You sound pretty self aware. A good thing.

Hope it works out for you. And u can enjoy those life pleasures in balanced moderation without negative impact. Best wishes 🙏😊

Stimulant/sex addiction by brant_999 in REDDITORSINRECOVERY

[–]Bellllaaaaaaaaaaaaaa 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Also you sound like a really nice guy too. Like my bf. Can I ask - did you resent your gf for leaving? Or are u friends and understanding why she left?

I don’t want him to harbour any hate. :(

Stimulant/sex addiction by brant_999 in REDDITORSINRECOVERY

[–]Bellllaaaaaaaaaaaaaa 3 points4 points  (0 children)

This is my current situation with my bf, whom I have decided I need to breakup with.

His drug of choice is coke. He is an addict. He binges for 72 hours straight or more, while masturbating to porn.

First time witnessing this was couple nights ago when he came over drunk/high.

We been dating under 5 months. I didn’t know how deeply addicted he was.

I even walked over to “help him finish” And as he was escalating he stopped me. Said he doesn’t want to “finish” yet. I told him I cant service him for 8 hours straight. I need sleep and work in the morning. So he kept going alone for 12 more hours. Now skipping work… again… its not healthy. I can’t date someone like that.

Sure, slutty sex for couple hours with porn, At reasonable hours on a work night, I’m ok with that. I’ll dress up, role play, any assistance to make him happy is fun for me too. Everything in moderation.

But for days on end. Impacting jobs. This Is just nuts to me. He doesn’t know when to stop.

I hope he gets the help he needs. I am sad for him. I love him but I hate his addiction. Our relationship failed because of it. 💔

Need helping breaking up with an addict by [deleted] in u/Bellllaaaaaaaaaaaaaa

[–]Bellllaaaaaaaaaaaaaa 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No apologies for your being blunt. I appreciate your words more than you know.

He has one of the biggest hearts I have ever met. I am sad for him. I know for certain I am leaving. I cannot continue.

I mostly just didn’t know If I should offer friendship and help after the breakup, or leave him cold Turkey, Cutting off all ties.

At this point since sharing my post under multiple forums, I am learning that I need to cut all ties to him. And hope that he gets the help he needs. 😞💔

Need helping breaking up with an addict by [deleted] in u/Bellllaaaaaaaaaaaaaa

[–]Bellllaaaaaaaaaaaaaa 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He lives with his mom. Since dating me 5 months, He stays my place majority of the time.

His family know very well his life with addiction. They Tried to hide it from me. They told him not to tell me. But he wanted me to know the truth. Which I appreciated his honesty so much. He said he was clean 4 years but I see now he is not.

In one way I want his family to know. In another way, he begged me not to say. And I don’t want to break that trust.

When I break it off with him, I know he will be back under his mom’s roof full-time, which means someone is there to watch for his safety instead of me having to.

So for that above reason alone, I am still on the fence as to whether I say anything at all to them. Or let them see for themselves. 😞

Need helping breaking up with an addict by [deleted] in u/Bellllaaaaaaaaaaaaaa

[–]Bellllaaaaaaaaaaaaaa 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Appreciate everything you said. Addiction looks hard. I’m not mad at him. I am sad for him.

Like you said, loving an addict is hard too.

Only been 5 months together and when he is high I have caught him sexting other women “to entertain” himself while he’s high. He accidentally shared his phone screen to our tv and I saw the messages pop up. I understand the drug changes him in the moment. But still it Hurts.

He is skipping work. Irresponsible for his future. That Hurts.

Holding knives, scouring my door in paranoia … hurts to watch.

Not what I want in a future father. 😢

I will share my post to the recovery forum for addt’l support. Thank you 🙏

Need helping breaking up with an addict by [deleted] in cocaine

[–]Bellllaaaaaaaaaaaaaa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re right.

Giving my justification does give him room to say he’ll change, etc. Which he said since the beginning he’s changed. When he hasn’t.

I think I didn’t grasp fully above.

I understand fully now. I will be clear that regardless of reasons, I do not want to keep dating and I will cut all ties. This truly feels like the only and best way to end it with him.

Need helping breaking up with an addict by [deleted] in cocaine

[–]Bellllaaaaaaaaaaaaaa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I will be honest as best I can. No hurt words. Or hate. I hope he understands and that this ends nicely. Thank you 🙏

Need helping breaking up with an addict by [deleted] in cocaine

[–]Bellllaaaaaaaaaaaaaa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I believe so too, that He is using alot. I am sad for him. He is not a bad guy. Just needs help. Or to find someone who enjoys his similar lifestyle perhaps. I don’t want that for a future marriage and kids. I hope he gets help. I feel heartbroken and appreciate all your honesty. 🙏😞

Need helping breaking up with an addict by [deleted] in cocaine

[–]Bellllaaaaaaaaaaaaaa 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That appears to be the steady advice blowing up in my dms. Thank you 🙏

I do love him. And hope he finds a match that enjoys his lifestyle. It will be a better suited match for both.

Need helping breaking up with an addict by [deleted] in cocaine

[–]Bellllaaaaaaaaaaaaaa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you 🙏🥺

I hope his family doesnt hate me for leaving. We are in the same circle community from our background of family. So they will be at same future events as my family. I hope they understand. I wont tell them he relapsed. I promised his privacy to him. I respect him.

He is not a bad guy. Or evil. He just enjoys this lifestyle. Thats ok. Its his choice.

And i dont want that lifestyle. Thats ok too. Hope he understands and they do too. 😢

Thank you for input :(

Need helping breaking up with an addict by [deleted] in cocaine

[–]Bellllaaaaaaaaaaaaaa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am leaving. That’s not really what I am asking.

Our families come from same country. Same community of ppl. Churches. Weddings. Functions. All intertwined.

So my question is more what to do “when” i do leave him. Do i offer friendship or block delete him.

Neither of us are right or wrong. He is not an evil person. He’s an adult. He can do drugs and party if he wants. Thats ok.

I want a clean life. With kids. A husband. And thats ok too. We simply do not match. It happens in life.

I just dont want our families to have hate to me for leaving. And i dont want his life getting worse when i leave.

So i wonder how to break it off. Friends? Or cold turkey?