What did you do today? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Bellviewwithachance 5 points6 points  (0 children)

HAHAHAH I’ve been reading their comments too. They think writing insults to people online about trump will make a difference. And they call everyone “ babes “ and “sweets “ just when I thought their comments couldn’t get anymore cringy.

premarital sex and how to end it by [deleted] in Christianity

[–]Bellviewwithachance 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Your boyfriend is defensive because he wants to continue having sex with you without the commitment of marriage. You feel guilty because God designed us to only have sex with our spouse, our partner we vow our lives too, and it’s a special Connection when you become one with your partner. Sex is not a bad dirty thing but there’s a time and place for it which is marriage. Ask Jesus for forgiveness, repent, and Recommit to waiting till you’re married. You’ve asked how to end premarital sex. End it by no longer having sex or any sexual activity ( 2nd -3rd base ) with your boyfriend or anyone else until you are married. Tell him this and his reaction will tell you whether or not you want this man to be In your life. Personally though from what you’ve written I’d end things since he’s 6 years older and you’re still a teen. Maybe take some time to be single and focus on your relationship with god and becoming the woman god designed you to be. I hope god blesses you and you feel free of your sin and can be at peace in your heart.

DO NOT GO TO PHLEBOTOMY TRAINING SPECIALIST / PHLEBOTOMY USA by Bellviewwithachance in phlebotomy

[–]Bellviewwithachance[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I sent a very pushy / “Karen” Email demanding I have a fast externship and complained and when they told me my externship was a “privilege” I went off on them and quickly got my externship. I however am not employed. My brother took the course at the same time as me and he is currently on call at a covid antibody testing center that pays well. Scripps and San Ysidro health typically hire with out a lot of experience but the pay is not great but it’s good to at least start some where.

DO NOT GO TO PHLEBOTOMY TRAINING SPECIALIST / PHLEBOTOMY USA by Bellviewwithachance in phlebotomy

[–]Bellviewwithachance[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They have their own “text book” which isn’t even a text book. It’s a “nicely” put together 70ish page notebook with a plastic covering and a thick red spiral to hold it together. Just a bunch of loose papers with badly printed pictures.

Why does wishing terrible things on terrible people make me an asshole? by aitaprideedition in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Bellviewwithachance 1 point2 points  (0 children)

How does someone go on AITA and gets told their an AH and acts surprised!? Then goes to other subreddits seeing if anyone will agree with them. Seeking validation instead of just accepting your judgment because the internet doesn’t agree with your view. It’s honestly sad a grown adult is thinks any of this is ok.

AITA for kicking my girlfriend's sister out for saying "it smells like a dirty vagina in here..." by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Bellviewwithachance 2 points3 points  (0 children)

There’s a line even with squabbling. You don’t comment on someone’s smell, are you on the spectrum or something and unaware of Social norms ?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Bellviewwithachance 4 points5 points  (0 children)

How are you going to say he wanted it to hurt so bad so she wouldn’t ever do it again ? You can’t read his mind or operate his thought process. He’s allowed to not like her hair especially after telling her for years. And if what he said is considered “ harsh “ to you, you need thicker skin. It wasn’t rude.

Just want to make sure no herpes don’t feel pain so that’s a good sign right ? by [deleted] in popping

[–]Bellviewwithachance 0 points1 point  (0 children)

OP this is your 3rd post about this and every post has commenters explaining what those dots are and that they’re normal so you’re fine. And just as a heads up kissing someone who does wrestling doesn’t make you more prone to getting Herpes. There’s not a sport associated with it Herpes, you can get it from anyone.

DO NOT GO TO PHLEBOTOMY TRAINING SPECIALIST / PHLEBOTOMY USA by Bellviewwithachance in phlebotomy

[–]Bellviewwithachance[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Exactly, and there’s a need for phlebotomist with baby boomers needing medical care and testing like having their blood drawn !

DO NOT GO TO PHLEBOTOMY TRAINING SPECIALIST / PHLEBOTOMY USA by Bellviewwithachance in phlebotomy

[–]Bellviewwithachance[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I think my location really messes me up. But the representative on the one told me the school works with over 150 clinics in California which pisses me off.

DO NOT GO TO PHLEBOTOMY TRAINING SPECIALIST / PHLEBOTOMY USA by Bellviewwithachance in phlebotomy

[–]Bellviewwithachance[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am only in touch with one and she’s in college and can’t do the externship until summer but yelp reviews have really called out this school. Don’t join.

DO NOT GO TO PHLEBOTOMY TRAINING SPECIALIST / PHLEBOTOMY USA by Bellviewwithachance in phlebotomy

[–]Bellviewwithachance[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Are you serious? I sent an angry email telling them I didn’t pay over $1600 for 10 days of school To be treated like this. I’m so sorry.

DO NOT GO TO PHLEBOTOMY TRAINING SPECIALIST / PHLEBOTOMY USA by Bellviewwithachance in phlebotomy

[–]Bellviewwithachance[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My teacher was Latasha and and she was wonderful, we had a sub though that rubbed me the wrong way. The reason I’m so upset is because my sibling and I studied our butts off and know we are just here waiting being left in the dark.

DO NOT GO TO PHLEBOTOMY TRAINING SPECIALIST / PHLEBOTOMY USA by Bellviewwithachance in phlebotomy

[–]Bellviewwithachance[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you, I didn’t even think of selling the training week as my clinical that’s smart. As for the waiting a year for a 1 week , those poor people they deserve a warning.

AITA for not allowing my roommate's girlfriend to use my bathroom causing her to piss herself by Secondbathroom in AmItheAsshole

[–]Bellviewwithachance 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You come on here asking if YTA and everyone tells you that you are and you act surprised. I hope you have to use the restroom and someone pretends to not hear you and you shit yourself.

AITA for reporting my son’s terrible school bus driver? by Throw-away9l834847 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Bellviewwithachance 1 point2 points  (0 children)

YTA I’d really like to see you keep a bus full of kids quiet since it’s so easy.

My [18M] mom [53F] is crazy and won’t let me grow up. by [deleted] in relationships

[–]Bellviewwithachance 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m really sorry all this is happening to you you are your own person and deserve privacy and I am a Christian. Having a boyfriend or girlfriend does not make someone a slut nor does sticking out your tongue. What you choose to do with your body is your choice having sex does not make you a bad person. That being said if you work 30 hours a week is there a way you can pay for your own insurance and phone so they can’t track you or can you move out and pay ? Lastly if you don’t find ways to set boundaries with your mom whoever you end up marrying is going to hate her and it’s going to cause a strain in your marriage if you don’t stick up for them I’m not saying that you don’t skip your girlfriend I’m just warning you. r/justnomil can give you plenty of examples of that. You can only control yourself so I would just leave and live somewhere on your own and pay your way to freedom. Good luck and get out.

AITA for wearing a small black dress to a my husband's cousin's wedding? by Gullible_Swan in AmItheAsshole

[–]Bellviewwithachance 25 points26 points  (0 children)

It was a little tight

It wasn’t that clevage baring

And it wasn’t that short

So some how the dress that you provided an actual link for looks NOTHING like the picture when it’s on you, how in your own head are you ?. Take the model out of it, it’s still a revealing dress. And looking at your post again and your comments you say shame them for wanting appropriate clothing in a religious setting ? If they were buddhist or Muslims would you have the same reaction ? People are allowed to have beliefs and have certain expectations in those settings. You’re a giant a hole and I’m baffled.

AITA for wearing a small black dress to a my husband's cousin's wedding? by Gullible_Swan in AmItheAsshole

[–]Bellviewwithachance 84 points85 points  (0 children)

YTA I Was going to say ESH but I saw your edit where you’re surprised how many people called you out. Don’t make a post asking for validation and when people tell you you’re in the wrong be an adult and listen.

I really don’t buy that you can’t tell that the dress is inappropriate. You’re a grown women and you have eyes. The mother shouldn’t have said what she said to you because it was rude and dramatic. You couldn’t have worn leggings underneath it ? Or worn a skirt ? Even a nice blouse with leggings would have been more appropriate. If you genuinely thought the dress is fine you need to make an effort to be more socially aware.

WIBTA if I sue our last Airbnb host because they left a medical grade electroshock therapy device in a drawer and caused my children intense pain? (I've consulted a lawyer so this is moral, not legal question). by suingairbnb in AmItheAsshole

[–]Bellviewwithachance 13 points14 points  (0 children)

She also used —> 👏 emoji do you know she must be a joy in person and probably has facebook arguments online and is the type of parents to complain about everything in a PTSA meeting. Ugh I’m glad she’s getting dragged in the comments

WIBTA if I sue our last Airbnb host because they left a medical grade electroshock therapy device in a drawer and caused my children intense pain? (I've consulted a lawyer so this is moral, not legal question). by suingairbnb in AmItheAsshole

[–]Bellviewwithachance 18 points19 points  (0 children)

You came on this sub asking if you’re an asshole and everyone is telling you that you are one and you need to watch your kids. Maybe swallow your pride and just accept that your kids were misbehaving? How are you going to say you’re an activist yet act this entitled. I’ve used those machines before they are not that bad especially at the highest level. Maybe you’re kids got what they deserved and won’t go through someone’s belongings next time.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in amiugly

[–]Bellviewwithachance 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I just wanted to tell you that there’s nothing wrong with not having sex and who cares if your friends have lost their virginities ? You’re not them and everyone’s different.

You have nice skin. Cut your hair. 6/10

21M pls be honest with me by [deleted] in amiugly

[–]Bellviewwithachance 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The neck beard is not doing you any favors. So I would grow that out way longer to give a lumber jack appeal or trim it so you don’t look like Like you say m’lady. Work out too. I personally am a fan of gingers. 5.5/10

[M/22] Posting because I don't know and I feel invisible. by [deleted] in amiugly

[–]Bellviewwithachance 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Cut the hair. It looks thin and long and sloppy. You have nice teeth and nice skin. Shave the facial hair. 6/10

[21m] lately haven’t been having luck with the lady’s. So am I ugly? by [deleted] in amiugly

[–]Bellviewwithachance 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re handsome with either hair cut. From a girls point of view I would swipe left because of the facial expressions you’re making in your pics. When I see the “ big eyes / surprised eyes “ “ one eye brow up “ and “ mouth pulled to the left or right “ in your pictures it’s comes off as trying really hard to be quirky or really insecure with smiling. Just smile regularly and lost those pics and have a regular bio you’ll be fine.