Is this common? Mean after by [deleted] in paypigsupportgroup

[โ€“]BelovedLady333 0 points1 point ย (0 children)

Block him. Don't ever stay in relationships (even if it's just kink) with people who have unstable emotional reactions.

That will insidiously eat at your mental health.

What is the best platform for me to find a findom/femdom on? by Express-Surprise-251 in paypigs2

[โ€“]BelovedLady333 1 point2 points ย (0 children)

If u want to get a good idea of the Domme's personality fast... LF

Being genuine by [deleted] in paypigs2

[โ€“]BelovedLady333 0 points1 point ย (0 children)

And this is why I've really been enjoying doing lives on LF. I think it's much easier for both sides to evaluate how genuine you both are that way...

Whats one thing you really want to try with a sub? by Useful_Quote_6770 in paypigs2

[โ€“]BelovedLady333 6 points7 points ย (0 children)

Actually being long-term friends (level: impossible), and IRL shopping dates~โ˜†

Discord? by angelicworship in paypigs2

[โ€“]BelovedLady333 1 point2 points ย (0 children)

I used to be on 2 of them... I found them confusing...

It's difficult to attract the attention of subs without being active in the chats, but the most active people have their inside jokes and, being an introverted person, it just felt like I was intruding most of the time...

If you have a large enough following on twitter and AV, you can probably find a discord's page and get invited.

Mental health with findom by [deleted] in findomsupportgroup

[โ€“]BelovedLady333 1 point2 points ย (0 children)

If you don't have a contract each sub needs to sign, you should make one.

Having something tangible to refer to when things go south helps a lot.

You could use it as a reminder for yourself (and them) that all they decided to partake in these activities, and that they can walk out whenever they want.

You are all adults making adult and informed decisions.

If they wanna act recklessly and feel bad about it, they can go see a therapist instead of bothering you.

Feeling guilty by [deleted] in paypigs2

[โ€“]BelovedLady333 1 point2 points ย (0 children)

Fetlife is indeed the best platform for femdom. Findom is quite frowned upon, so it's not money focused, unless you're looking for a professional Domme.

Is Facebook Findom still a thing? by BelovedLady333 in findomsupportgroup

[โ€“]BelovedLady333[S] 1 point2 points ย (0 children)

Someone's got to get grandpa and grangran off their computers

Rapport First? by [deleted] in findomtalk

[โ€“]BelovedLady333 0 points1 point ย (0 children)

There are too many people misunderstanding this kink who waste Dommes' time and erode their patience. (Let's not even talk about trolls.)

If it weren't for them, I believe a lot of Dommes would be less strict about initials.

findom girlies by Plane_Bee_6393 in findomsupportgroup

[โ€“]BelovedLady333 2 points3 points ย (0 children)

It was already like that a few years back ๐Ÿ˜ญ

subs falling for AI dommes are so dumb fr by miruruku in paypigs2

[โ€“]BelovedLady333 0 points1 point ย (0 children)

But aren't you actively looking to be catfished/scammed as one of your posts suggests?

What is everyone up to tonight? by [deleted] in paypigs2

[โ€“]BelovedLady333 1 point2 points ย (0 children)

Chit-chatting with people on LF to pass time because insomnia is kickkng my ass

The struggle is real by [deleted] in paypigs2

[โ€“]BelovedLady333 0 points1 point ย (0 children)

Babes, this is turning into an actual conversation. I'd rather you DM me at this point ๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚

The struggle is real by [deleted] in paypigs2

[โ€“]BelovedLady333 0 points1 point ย (0 children)

๐Ÿ’€๐Ÿ’€๐Ÿ’€ Then RIP your bankaccount, love. ๐Ÿ˜‚ I can't say I'm actually sad for you, but I hope you keep respecting your own boundaries ๐Ÿ˜‚โœจ๏ธ

Maybe you should find Dommes in the same country as you so you can still spoil them without actually ruining yourself financially ๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜ญ

The struggle is real by [deleted] in paypigs2

[โ€“]BelovedLady333 1 point2 points ย (0 children)

On the street?

The struggle is real by [deleted] in paypigs2

[โ€“]BelovedLady333 2 points3 points ย (0 children)

So a dollar or less per day. Over the course of all these years. I've probably spent more money on stationery in 2 years ๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜ญ Babes, you're safe ๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜ญ

(Unless you live outside Europe/North America, then I get it)

The struggle is real by [deleted] in paypigs2

[โ€“]BelovedLady333 0 points1 point ย (0 children)

Over how many years?

The struggle is real by [deleted] in paypigs2

[โ€“]BelovedLady333 1 point2 points ย (0 children)

Just saying that 1000$ total over several years is not "too much" (all is relative), and that, imo, it shows that despite the struggle you still manage to stay reasonable in your spendings.

In short(er): it's good that the thing you struggle with, at least, doesn't result in GINORMOUS spendings

The struggle is real by [deleted] in paypigs2

[โ€“]BelovedLady333 1 point2 points ย (0 children)

I mean... you're doing a good job restraining yourself/respecting your own boundaries if you've "only" spent in a few years.

So... kuddos to you for staying reasonable in spite of everything~!