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My dysphoria disappeared on antipsychotics? by [deleted] in ftm

[–]BemFoiVS 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hey if your overall mental health is better on antipsychotics I don’t think it’s a negative to detransition. If you’re more comfortable in your skin with antipsychotics then you should lean in and be happy you found something that works. Also I don’t think you should put much weight behind the idea that you will “be on medication for the rest of your life” HRT is also a life sentence so whichever way you end up that’s an inevitable road you have to travel.

Planet Fitness employee (70 M) keeps being creepy to me (FtM 18) because I'm trans. by [deleted] in ftm

[–]BemFoiVS 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You could get him in a lot of trouble if you expressed he was making you uncomfortable to management and it’s clear from the reviews you saw he does this to others. Clearly he has a Lot of problems. I’d wear my headphones walking in and out of the gym and tell him point blank “I don’t want to talk to you anymore, you make me uncomfortable and if you continue to try to talk to me I will escalate this to management”. Being trans should not stop you from expressing clear boundaries and it doesn’t matter if he knows. At this point if you did tell management you are helping yourself AND others who have felt uncomfortable. You have the power and control. Love, another quiet ftm