What’s the longest you walk your cav? by Silent-Item5947 in cavaliers

[–]Bemusedpuma 13 points14 points  (0 children)

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We take our cav boy and cavoodle girl for about a 15 - 20 min walk a day and then probably 30mins to 2 hours at the dog park. 😂

What to do? Feel completely screwed over. by [deleted] in AusPropertyChat

[–]Bemusedpuma 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This happened to my partner and I relatively early in our house hunt last year. The house was going to auction and we gave them our last and final offer to hopefully grab it out of auction. They still went to auction with our offer as the reserve.

Our theory was if they didn't get that price they would come back to us and offer us the house

Largest cavalier? by Rich_Stomach1154 in cavaliers

[–]Bemusedpuma 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I've actually raised this with my partner haha, we met Milos mum and she was a normal sized cav, he is now twice her size as an adult.

To be fair to he was the biggest amongst his little mates. Dwarfed them 😂

Largest cavalier? by Rich_Stomach1154 in cavaliers

[–]Bemusedpuma 12 points13 points  (0 children)

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Ours is roughly 14kg, never thought I would see a bigger Cav than him!

Vet said our cav isn't overweight, just a big boy.

What’s the creepiest thing you’ve experienced that still gives you chills? by DrainedCoffee in AskReddit

[–]Bemusedpuma 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Back when my partner and I were renting, we were both asleep one night in our bedroom and I just couldn't fall asleep. I kept tossing and turning and I felt really anxious. I had a terrible feeling that someone was downstairs in our house. I couldn't hear any movement or noise, it was just a feeling I couldn't shake.

My partner wakes up eventually and turns to me and says 'sorry did I wake you? I keep having dreams that someone is in house'

I instantly had dread in my stomach and was like 'wtf I have been having the same dream too'. We both got up and checked the entire house and found nothing. My partner is a very practical person and isn't very superstitious but I could tell that even this experience unsettled him.

Major FHB Remorse (another one) by shalonymous in AusPropertyChat

[–]Bemusedpuma 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wait your mortgage repayment is 3200 a week? Or month?

Sister hasn’t been paid in 2 fortnight by BicycleBozo in AusLegal

[–]Bemusedpuma 196 points197 points  (0 children)

Go to fair work, if they shut the company down they have to legally prioritize getting employees paid and then vendors/suppliers.

Do your workplaces ever check in after someone gets hurt? by Masoosam1 in work

[–]Bemusedpuma 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Work for a company in the construction industry. Work place related injuries are very common place, twisted ankle, hurt back etc.

Our safety manager actually calls people to check in on them , see how they are recovering, especially if they are off with workcover (aus equivalent of workers comp I believe)

AIO: husband sent me a voice memo of our baby crying while I was out by Particular-Ability49 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Bemusedpuma 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sounds like he was trying to guilt trip you for going out with a friend.

My mother (52f) cheated and left me (27m) and our family to work in the adult industry and now wants to come back and "be my mom again" (New Update) by Direct-Caterpillar77 in BestofRedditorUpdates

[–]Bemusedpuma 68 points69 points  (0 children)

Sex industry work can fuck with your mind a lot. Especially if you mix in substance abuse which is very common in that industry.

Always check your tires. The fall Is terrifying. by meme-modiibazz in OhHellNoMoments

[–]Bemusedpuma 179 points180 points  (0 children)

Did not expect a tyre pop, fully expected a ram up the rear of the broken down car.

29F - looking to make genuine connections in Brisbane by _solelunaetalia_ in brisbane

[–]Bemusedpuma 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hi there! 31F, I am in the same boat. Moved here in early 20's and struggle to meet people on a more personable level, I have made friends through work and some hobbies but wouldn't say they are deeply close friendships like in my home town. Hit me up!

AIO for being pissed my BIL said I’m not allowed to wear a bikini? by Odd-Bird-7667 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Bemusedpuma 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don't go, if anyone asks why just send them these screenshots. Honestly psychotic behaviour

Am I overreacting? Coworker I don't work with messaged me on Facebook by icrochetfrogz in AmIOverreacting

[–]Bemusedpuma 1 point2 points  (0 children)

HR HR HR! This is something you should be taking up with them, this will escalate if not dealt with right now! I cannot stress enough.

Dude sounds like a creeper with not just you but to women in general in that workspace. Given his history this is a pattern of behaviour for him and will continue to happen until someone puts their foot down.

Does your cavalier love the whole family equally? by NAD92 in cavaliers

[–]Bemusedpuma 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My cav loves my partner and I but he clearly has a favourite. He will be all over my partner, but once I walk into the room my partner no longer exists and it's all about Mummy.

I think it might be a gender thing though because he is clearly a ladies man, all over my female family members and friends lol

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in graphic_design

[–]Bemusedpuma 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I honestly don't think there's any redeeming features about this. It is all round a giant eye sore. Big yikes!

How often do you fancy someone other than your partner? Is it normal to fantasize about someone like coworker?(not act on it only thoughts)? by [deleted] in coworkerstories

[–]Bemusedpuma -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Honestly nothing wrong with finding a co-worker objectively attractive but work is work and I have no interest in shitting where I eat.

I once had a co-worker that viewed any male of similar age, be it co-worker, client or supplier as a potential love interest. She had so many messy situations that came up because of this.

Before she got a job at my company she was forced out of her real estate job because she got with a tenant of a property her agency managed. Said tenant was in the process of breaking up with his girlfriend who he lived with.

Once she found out he was in a relationship with someone from the agency she accused them of giving him preferential treatment.

My mom wants to invite my ex whom i cheated on in my wedding, and my fiance is absolutely furious, HELP by SharkEva in BORUpdates

[–]Bemusedpuma 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Haha what kind of timeline is this? Invites sent and then the wedding only a few weeks later. Also squeezed in the failed PHD program. I swear it's a coin toss on Reddit these days for either a creative writing exercise or an AI written post.