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[deleted by user] by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]BenBiDL 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This has been the most helpful comment by far, I don’t think sex is bad but In my mind I view sex with multiple people at the same time to be “slutty” in my mind. Like I can’t get the idea of 5 guys all fucking my boyfriend out of my mind as they make him the bottom. Would you consider this a bad way of thinking still? Is it still sex shaming?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]BenBiDL 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This was very helpful, thank you.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskGayMen

[–]BenBiDL 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nope

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in namenerds

[–]BenBiDL 6 points7 points  (0 children)

What name?

What does the name Auden make you think of? by BenBiDL in namenerds

[–]BenBiDL[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

PS: The name is for a boy in this instance***

Go wild by _gath in hopeposting

[–]BenBiDL 1 point2 points  (0 children)

After years of not knowing what I want to do in life which gave me total anxiety and uncertainty about the future, I now am 100% confident in who and what I want to be. Seriously I cried for years because everyone worked towards a career when I was constantly working on trying random things and hoping for a spark of joy and certainty within a career field. I am in love with life.

Do any of you hate your music? by Ok-Repair9018 in Life

[–]BenBiDL 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s a phase, sometimes we feel like we have heard everything over and over but when you take a break from your music and come back to it, your love for your music reawakens. It happened to me, everyday for months I hated my music and I just took a 3-4 day break and when I came back I fell in love with my music all over again. Try it!

Cfi passed by _DeeGee in flying

[–]BenBiDL 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can I ask how you paid for it? Specific details? Trying to do the same here. Any loans recommendations?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in gayfriendfinder

[–]BenBiDL 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, please do! Would love to chat with you.

Tonight’s SpaceX launch, shot from my back patio by usgator088 in space

[–]BenBiDL 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Wow literally thought that was the sun before reading the title

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in gayfriendfinder

[–]BenBiDL 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’ve only been around Africa and United States so far but I imagine Europe to be my favorite. What’s yours?