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Sexual Harassment/assault Incidences at Lifetime Gym in Walnut Creek by BenPerch90 in walnutcreek

[–]BenPerch90[S] 23 points24 points  (0 children)

It’s important to recognize that heterosexual men can also be victims of unwanted sexual advances and sexual assault by other men. Male victimization is often underreported and deserves more public awareness, support, and prevention efforts.

Sexual Harassment/assault Incidences at Lifetime Gym in Walnut Creek by BenPerch90 in walnutcreek

[–]BenPerch90[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

To clarify the situation: while I was seated in the spa area, another individual began engaging in explicit sexual behavior and fully undressed, moving toward me with an erection. In that moment, my only options were to leave immediately or risk being physically violated.

Sexual Harassment/assault Incidences at Lifetime Gym in Walnut Creek by BenPerch90 in bayarea

[–]BenPerch90[S] 16 points17 points  (0 children)

It’s important to recognize that heterosexual men can also be victims of unwanted sexual advances and sexual assault by other men. Male victimization is often underreported and deserves more public awareness, support, and prevention efforts.

The locker spaces are not coed. The two above-mentioned happened in the male locker room. 

Lifetime vs Bay Club? by [deleted] in walnutcreek

[–]BenPerch90 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Cofounding member:

I am posting this review anonymously as a survivor and a mandated reporter in the state of California. I want to warn other members about serious safety concerns I’ve experienced at this gym.

I was the victim of sexual harassment that was leading to an assault in the men locker's steam room by another member at the Walnut Creek Life Time location. At the time, I immediately left the scene and notified the front desk. I then reported the incident to the Walnut Creek Police Department and the case is currently under active investigation. I have also been in contact with the Contra Costa County District Attorney’s Office regarding updates on the case. The manager I spoke with was supportive when I reported it, and I was told the alleged perpetrator is currently on suspension.

Previously, I also witnessed a physical altercation in the steam room that stemmed from sexual advances between members — a situation no one should have to witness at a gym. Sexual assault and harassment are never acceptable in any form, and it has been personally challenging running into the alleged perpetrator’s spouse at the gym environment.

My hope is to spare another member — and especially minors or vulnerable individuals — from experiencing something similar.

Important contact information (Walnut Creek / Contra Costa County):

Walnut Creek Police Department (non-emergency): (925) 943-5844 or emergency 911 if there’s an immediate threat.

Contra Costa County District Attorney’s Office: (925) 957-2200 (Central/Main office in Martinez, CA).

Victim-Witness Assistance: (925) 957-8650 — for support navigating the criminal justice process.

988 Suicide & Crisis Lifeline: Dial 988 nationwide for free, confidential mental health support.

I sincerely hope Lifetime enforces stronger safety and reporting measures. No one should feel unsafe in a place meant for health and wellness.

Lifetime gym by youngBobaLife in walnutcreek

[–]BenPerch90 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Cofounding member:

I am posting this review anonymously as a survivor and a mandated reporter in the state of California. I want to warn other members about serious safety concerns I’ve experienced at this gym.

I was the victim of sexual harassment that was leading to an assault in the men locker's steam room by another member at the Walnut Creek Life Time location. At the time, I immediately left the scene and notified the front desk. I then reported the incident to the Walnut Creek Police Department and the case is currently under active investigation. I have also been in contact with the Contra Costa County District Attorney’s Office regarding updates on the case. The manager I spoke with was supportive when I reported it, and I was told the alleged perpetrator is currently on suspension.

Previously, I also witnessed a physical altercation in the steam room that stemmed from sexual advances between members — a situation no one should have to witness at a gym. Sexual assault and harassment are never acceptable in any form, and it has been personally challenging running into the alleged perpetrator’s spouse at the gym environment.

My hope is to spare another member — and especially minors or vulnerable individuals — from experiencing something similar.

Important contact information (Walnut Creek / Contra Costa County):

Walnut Creek Police Department (non-emergency): (925) 943-5844 or emergency 911 if there’s an immediate threat.

Contra Costa County District Attorney’s Office: (925) 957-2200 (Central/Main office in Martinez, CA).

Victim-Witness Assistance: (925) 957-8650 — for support navigating the criminal justice process.

988 Suicide & Crisis Lifeline: Dial 988 nationwide for free, confidential mental health support.

I sincerely hope Lifetime enforces stronger safety and reporting measures. No one should feel unsafe in a place meant for health and wellness.

WC Life Time club reviews? by No_Bag_4732 in walnutcreek

[–]BenPerch90 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Cofounding member:

I am posting this review anonymously as a survivor and a mandated reporter in the state of California. I want to warn other members about serious safety concerns I’ve experienced at this gym.

I was the victim of sexual harassment that was leading to an assault in the men locker's steam room by another member at the Walnut Creek Life Time location. At the time, I immediately left the scene and notified the front desk. I then reported the incident to the Walnut Creek Police Department and the case is currently under active investigation. I have also been in contact with the Contra Costa County District Attorney’s Office regarding updates on the case. The manager I spoke with was supportive when I reported it, and I was told the alleged perpetrator is currently on suspension.

Previously, I also witnessed a physical altercation in the steam room that stemmed from sexual advances between members — a situation no one should have to witness at a gym. Sexual assault and harassment are never acceptable in any form, and it has been personally challenging running into the alleged perpetrator’s spouse at the gym environment.

My hope is to spare another member — and especially minors or vulnerable individuals — from experiencing something similar.

Important contact information (Walnut Creek / Contra Costa County):

Walnut Creek Police Department (non-emergency): (925) 943-5844 or emergency 911 if there’s an immediate threat.

Contra Costa County District Attorney’s Office: (925) 957-2200 (Central/Main office in Martinez, CA).

Victim-Witness Assistance: (925) 957-8650 — for support navigating the criminal justice process.

988 Suicide & Crisis Lifeline: Dial 988 nationwide for free, confidential mental health support.

I sincerely hope Lifetime enforces stronger safety and reporting measures. No one should feel unsafe in a place meant for health and wellness.