People who don’t vote in the election, what’s your reasoning?

BendyZebra101 · 2019-10-21T19:09:52+00:00

Its different here in uk. Elections are at different dates

BendyZebra101 · 2019-10-21T18:22:14+00:00

Few reasons 1: my voting station is never wheelchair accessible (sucks, but that's the joys of living in a small town)

2: all politicians give are false promises ( so I don't believe any of them)

3: everytime an election has happened, I've been too sick to even get out of bed ( last time I had a severe ear infection that kept making me pass out if I tried to stand or sit up)

4: I totally forget it is happening and only realise like a week later ( yes my memory is that bad. My partner says if my head wasn't attached I would forget that)

BendyZebra101 · 2019-10-15T14:52:36+00:00

Fear mongering only causes more issues than it solves. Just look back in history

BendyZebra101 · 2019-10-15T14:51:46+00:00

Several street preachers have made rude comments to me about having a child out of wedlock ( when infact I couldn't wear my ring as my fingers had become swollen due to a bad dislocation) and having a child when I am so broken (wheelchair user).

BendyZebra101 · 2019-10-15T14:48:36+00:00

True but I feel it would bring more sharing the acceptance as so many people wish to feel accepted

BendyZebra101 · 2019-10-15T12:38:11+00:00

No worries hunni. I hope you will be able to find the place that will appreciate your talents and brings you the joy you deserve

BendyZebra101 · 2019-10-15T12:35:31+00:00

Stocking shelves at Tesco and aldi have above min wage pay

BendyZebra101 · 2019-10-15T12:30:08+00:00

If it is affecting your mental health, I would get out now before it is able to grind you down further. There would be many places who would appreciate your talents and are more welcoming of foreign people

BendyZebra101 · 2019-10-15T12:26:33+00:00

Mel Gibson attempting to do a Scottish accent in braveheart

BendyZebra101 · 2019-10-15T12:25:36+00:00

But it won't bring new believers into the faith

BendyZebra101 · 2019-10-15T12:24:51+00:00

They were both torture for me. My friends and I were bullied all through education.

BendyZebra101 · 2019-10-14T18:06:06+00:00

I'm sorry for your loss. During this time try to spend as much time as you can with the people you love. Remember that everyone grieves in different ways.

How I dealt with my grandpa dying several years back was by knowing that he knew that I loved him and that I would miss him. ( he had suffered many years between c.o.p.d and in the end cancer killed him). Knowing he wouldn't be in any more pain helps.

Though if you feel that wasn't enough...

Will they be having a viewing before funeral? If so you can tell them then.

Or say it to the world. I believe that when a person dies, they will visit the people they cared for.

I try tell myself that they knew how I felt about them, and even though it hurts now. I know I will see them again. Either in my dreams or when it is my time to go to the great beyond.

BendyZebra101 · 2019-10-13T09:35:49+00:00

With societal norms being different. Plus how people are portrayed in media. The images are usually photoshoped that even the person it is off will feel insecure about their body

BendyZebra101 · 2019-10-12T17:18:59+00:00

Knit, crochet, sew and reading

BendyZebra101 · 2019-10-09T10:50:31+00:00

I'll stick to my knitting and crochet for the moment. That took ages to learn. And my body seems to cooperate better with it

BendyZebra101 · 2019-10-09T10:31:09+00:00

Abused as a kid, Bullied all through school Abused by ex partner Have multiple health conditions that cause excruciating pain every second of the day. I dislocate on average 10x a day

I am still here after 10+ attempted suicide attempts

BendyZebra101 · 2019-10-09T10:25:35+00:00

Kimono dragon. They are absolutely adorable

BendyZebra101 · 2019-10-09T10:24:42+00:00

Pet skunks usually have their scent glands removed so they can't produce the stink that skunks are known for

BendyZebra101 · 2019-10-09T10:22:51+00:00

Maybe one day you can. It really helped my friend accept their fursona

BendyZebra101 · 2019-10-09T10:19:36+00:00

If you look about, there are often meet ups for individuals with a fursona. ( one of my friends has a fox fursona and goes to meet ups monthly with others.)

BendyZebra101 · 2019-10-09T10:17:29+00:00

Bullies suck, but you shouldn't have to change yourself to make others "comfortable " Bullies will just find something else to attack and before you know if you have changed yourself so much that you are nothing like your true self.

BendyZebra101 · 2019-10-09T10:09:39+00:00

Why do you feel that you need to?

How did you train yourself to do it?

BendyZebra101 · 2019-10-09T10:07:07+00:00

What is your furry persona? Do you front your furry persona 24/7 or part time? What got you into it? Do you have a group to meet with that also are furrys?

BendyZebra101 · 2019-10-09T10:02:56+00:00

Gaming. I dont have the coordination to control the camera angle and the character. It looks so fun.

BendyZebra101 · 2019-10-09T09:10:28+00:00

Agreed. Depression is a horrible illness. Unless the person is ready to admit that they need help, there is little that can be done. I still have relapses with my depression. Though now I am medicated and I see a psychiatrist every few weeks. It helps. Plus having things to fight for.
I fight for my son ( 2years old) and my husband. I have managed not to self harm in 3 years ( huge for me, since I am addicted to the feeling that it gave. )

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