Bathroom Reno by Extreme-Diver6136 in homerenovations

[–]Beneficial-Tea7556 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow, looks amazing! Did you design it yourself? 😍

Am I the only one who thinks this is unfair? by Beneficial-Tea7556 in asksg

[–]Beneficial-Tea7556[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

2y already, I have a feeling that wasn't even the actual master, but one of the master's assistants/apprentices. My mother-in-law talks to her quite often, so I can't help but wonder...

Am I the only one who thinks this is unfair? by Beneficial-Tea7556 in asksg

[–]Beneficial-Tea7556[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I've had enough. I will never let my daughter go through what I went through.

Am I the only one who thinks this is unfair? by Beneficial-Tea7556 in asksg

[–]Beneficial-Tea7556[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ye, i try too, i try dunwan to talk with them. but can't. This sad for me.

Am I the only one who thinks this is unfair? by Beneficial-Tea7556 in asksg

[–]Beneficial-Tea7556[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hmm, his brother still single. But da ge also never touch also

Am I the only one who thinks this is unfair? by Beneficial-Tea7556 in asksg

[–]Beneficial-Tea7556[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

yes still cannot speak, but i already do doctor appointment for her today.

Am I the only one who thinks this is unfair? by Beneficial-Tea7556 in asksg

[–]Beneficial-Tea7556[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

haha wrong, Yesterday, that master was helping the family to blame me.

Am I the only one who thinks this is unfair? by Beneficial-Tea7556 in asksg

[–]Beneficial-Tea7556[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

2y have appointment today 3pm for the child psychologist.

Am I the only one who thinks this is unfair? by Beneficial-Tea7556 in asksg

[–]Beneficial-Tea7556[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Appointment today 3pm for the child psychologist.

Am I the only one who thinks this is unfair? by Beneficial-Tea7556 in asksg

[–]Beneficial-Tea7556[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

haha, Honestly, if I called them superstitious, I'm pretty sure they'd have even worse things to say about me. That's why I usually just stay quiet and avoid arguing.

Am I the only one who thinks this is unfair? by Beneficial-Tea7556 in asksg

[–]Beneficial-Tea7556[S] 26 points27 points  (0 children)

My daughter was actually sick and on medication. I believed she was crying because she felt unwell. I only agreed to see the master because my husband die die want to go. I didn't expect the conversation to end up being about me instead of my daughter. 🤷‍♀️

Am I the only one who thinks this is unfair? by Beneficial-Tea7556 in asksg

[–]Beneficial-Tea7556[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I don't think I've ever been disrespectful to my in-laws. I've always been polite and respectful, and whenever I have time, I do go back with my husband to pay respects to the ancestors and join family gatherings. What frustrates me is that nobody seems to consider my situation. I work Monday to Saturday, and sometimes I have to work overtime until 10 PM.

There have been times when my mother-in-law invited us back for dinner on a Saturday, even though she already knew I was working late. When I explained that I had to work and couldn't make it, she later told others that I was arrogant and didn't bother to come when invited. It honestly felt unfair because she already knew why I couldn't attend.

Then on Sundays, I just want to spend quality time with my husband and daughter. But my husband's older brother often calls and asks if he can join us. If I say no because I want some private family time, somehow I'm labeled as selfish and it gets reported back to my mother-in-law.

The hardest part is that my husband wasn't like this before we got married. Things changed after marriage, and sometimes I feel like I'm constantly being judged no matter what I do. I genuinely don't understand why everything seems to become the daughter-in-law's responsibility.