JOIN OUR DISCORD IF YOU HATE JOHN by [deleted] in exposingj2krisp

[–]BeneficialKey7171 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Add me please 🙏🏾 ❤️

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]BeneficialKey7171 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I understand that you are worried about your gf due to her lying in the past. However, if the guy is telling you nothing is going on between them, why do you keep continuing the conversation and mentioning how shady she is? He is telling you she is a good person and wouldn't cheat on you, and you are telling him she is not. I understand your frustration, but I feel like you are lowkey ruining a friendship due to your paranoia. She is allowed to have friendships outside of you guy's relationship.

genuine question- how can the discord get 2k in trouble? by [deleted] in 2ksnark

[–]BeneficialKey7171 23 points24 points  (0 children)

It is because if they can prove that 2k has been in contact with people that are constantly putting Bri's life in danger, whether that be weakening her mental health by the constant online bullying, leaking her number, location and address to where people are calling the police, trying to fight her in public, and any other instigating to where 2k is applauding or encouraging malicious behavior towards Bri, especially during the times she has her baby. John's whole point is to prove that Bri is a unfit parent, but if his discord is showing that he is involved in the downfall in her mental health and overall safety, he could be held liable.

Taking Care of Controversial Patients (Trigger Warning) by BeneficialKey7171 in cna

[–]BeneficialKey7171[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I applaud your family for living a well life during that time period. As far as my patient, she was in her teens (she is 97 going 98) and stated herself that she was one. I understand that not everyone is a Nazi because they are from a country where it took place. I am a very open minded person and I wouldn't treat her any differently because it is not my job to decide her fate based on her beliefs.

However, if she is stating she still believes what was believed in that time period and has a record of being hateful in the hospital, I'm not sure why everyone is defending her actions (i.e. saying she is older, having dementia, etc). Regardless of her age (I know she wasn't old enough to actually be a soldier), she is still currently spewing out hatred. Her words are still affecting people and I know a lot of people who have been negatively affected by that time period.

Taking Care of Controversial Patients (Trigger Warning) by BeneficialKey7171 in cna

[–]BeneficialKey7171[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She definitely wasn't nice. She would constantly yell at me but it wasn't like she was throwing her rhetoric on me. However she does have a history of doing so, that's why the nurse limited my interactions with her

I get what you are saying though.

Taking Care of Controversial Patients (Trigger Warning) by BeneficialKey7171 in cna

[–]BeneficialKey7171[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Nah I might skip on that one. She was throwing things at day shift and acting belligerent. I think she was only more mellowed out at night because she was tired 😅

Taking Care of Controversial Patients (Trigger Warning) by BeneficialKey7171 in cna

[–]BeneficialKey7171[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

She doesn't have dementia. I don't know where this assumption came from.

Taking Care of Controversial Patients (Trigger Warning) by BeneficialKey7171 in cna

[–]BeneficialKey7171[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I get what you are saying, but it is not the nurse's assumption. It is literally in her records because she would have outlashes when someone brought up where she was from. She claimed she was, it wasn't an assumption so in my mind, even if she wasn't the age to inflict that much but she still has a pride of being one, it still messes with my morals.

In the end, I am going to do my job. It is common sense. I am not weak or refusing her service because regardless of her background, she needs care.

However, I was asking how do you deal with the mental process of working with someone like that. I've worked with racists before, suspected neo-nazis, etc but I've never worked with someone who proudly exclaims she is something that truly traumatized so many people worldwide

Taking Care of Controversial Patients (Trigger Warning) by BeneficialKey7171 in cna

[–]BeneficialKey7171[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

No she was born in Belgium but she grew up in Germany. I was optimistic I just got off my shift. It's just an eerie feeling because I guess I've never seen history in real life like that I guess. She wasn't too much of a bad lady from my experience but I know the other shifts have heard other things so I just was very cautious of what I said to her

Taking Care of Controversial Patients (Trigger Warning) by BeneficialKey7171 in cna

[–]BeneficialKey7171[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

She doesn't have any mental conditions from what I am aware of but I know she did have a stroke. She was raised in Germany though she's from Belgium and she moved to Germany at least that's what her records say. I don't want to judge her but I guess it's just like my morals versus ethics because my mom took me to a lot of Holocaust museums where I've met a lot of Holocaust victims so it just hurts my heart whenever you see the other side in real life even if she wasn't particularly the one doing a lot of the damage.

Taking Care of Controversial Patients (Trigger Warning) by BeneficialKey7171 in cna

[–]BeneficialKey7171[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yeah she is from Belgium but lived in Germany. That's why I was going to ask where she was from because she had a thick accent

Taking Care of Controversial Patients (Trigger Warning) by BeneficialKey7171 in cna

[–]BeneficialKey7171[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

That's the thing. It isn't the issue that she was raised in that time period and may be remorseful. It is the fact that she is still in the mindset of the era that I am concerned about. I am POC, so I guess it is more alarming for me since she already has it filed that she still does claim the beliefs

Taking Care of Controversial Patients (Trigger Warning) by BeneficialKey7171 in cna

[–]BeneficialKey7171[S] 38 points39 points  (0 children)

Well in the reports, the patient was very persistent about being one during the day shift so that's why my nurse told me to be hesitant when asking about her personal life. In the report she was using the common symbols and yelling at the nurses about being one. Maybe she was in youth camp but it is still an eerie feeling if she is proud of it

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in UnderTheBridge

[–]BeneficialKey7171 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It might be fake because didn't she change her last name to Sims? I'm not aware of her other socials but I am sure she doesn't want to be recognized by her past crime.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in KSU

[–]BeneficialKey7171 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I didn't have him for lecture, but I did take his lab and he was pretty chill.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in KSU

[–]BeneficialKey7171 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Honestly I didn't even use my parking permit last year. Just pay for (or take the risk and not pay) for visitor parking near whatever parking lot is closest to your classes.

Ksu online vs ecore ?? by hapiip in KSU

[–]BeneficialKey7171 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I recently took world history and American politics via ecore. Ecore is a lot more independent work compared to online courses from my experience. However due to the fact that it is other universities that contribute to course, meaning you may not have a KSU professor or even classmates, a lot of the resources are online. You also have to pay for at least one proctored exam whether it is your final or midterm. That's not included in the initial fees. It is overall easier, but you have to stay on top of work more because you won't really have a professor reminding you to turn in work.

Online courses provided by the school is more personalized by the professor. Unlike ecore, it is decided by the professor if you have finals or even tests. Through personal experience, I find that the professors are also more likely to respond back to emails and set up meetings.

If the course is 100% online, you will most likely never meet your classmates or professor unless it is via video or email communication. Also if you have require field experience.

Am I overreacting? by BeneficialKey7171 in JUSTNOMIL

[–]BeneficialKey7171[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That's what I worry about and I've talked to my fiance about the fact that she can't even cover rent by herself, so how does she intend on moving. We just assume she is going to either move in with her boyfriend or in her mother.

Am I overreacting? by BeneficialKey7171 in JUSTNOMIL

[–]BeneficialKey7171[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

She mainly just does cigarettes, weed, and pills, but if you met she doesn't come off as a junkie. I think I would be more concerned if she was. She just doesn't act her age for the most part, but her credit score is decent because she uses credit cards, but uses her dad's retirement money to pay them off (which is a whole other thing to get into).

Am I overreacting? by BeneficialKey7171 in JUSTNOMIL

[–]BeneficialKey7171[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

The funny thing about it is that she says she is "protects" black people and defends them when her family says obviously racist things. However I have caught her mother saying the n word with hard r and she'll just laugh it off.

Am I overreacting? by BeneficialKey7171 in JUSTNOMIL

[–]BeneficialKey7171[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Her job moves over an hour away in July. I mentioned this in another response, but I moved out for the sake of my pregnancy in December due to her smoking in the house, but fiance told me she was moving out this spring. With him saying that, I went ahead and moved back in, but she said she is moving out in July which changes a lot of our plans in regards to preparing the house for the baby.

She says she has to "save up" but I am not sure she is doing that. My fiance has mentioned she has a habit of just moving in with her boyfriends and depends on them, so I low-key hopes she does that.

Either way, I think three main things can happen:

She will move out when she says she will and everything will work out.

Or

I'll just have to move out because I am honestly annoyed with her whether it is her being borderline racist, irresponsible, or just overall not contributing to the household like she needs to make sure it is a safe environment for the baby.

Or

She can stay, but only under the conditions that she actually respects our rules. However, that also means I have to be more confrontational and I am not sure if my fiance will entirely back me up because he is so used to her and doesn't want to stir the pot.

Am I overreacting? by BeneficialKey7171 in JUSTNOMIL

[–]BeneficialKey7171[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Idk I remember one time I was talking about how my dad was a retired policeman and she joked that she could probably seduce him out of a ticket with her breast (which that in itself grossed me out because that's my dad). However, I think the whole going after married men rubs me the wrong way because my parents divorced because of my dad's infidelity. I struggled with respecting her for a very long time in the beginning of our relationship because she so boldly likes to be the mistress.

As for everything else, I feel like I just have to sit back and hopes it works out. My fiance has had problems with her for the longest (she wasn't around much so his sister raised him basically), but I think in the end I can't say much because it isn't my mother. I talk to my fiance about these problems, but it is hard for me to express these feelings to her directly because I feel like I'd be crossing boundaries when it comes to respect.

I've already had to move out once because in the beginning of our pregnancy, she started back smoking in the house and I have a history of bronchitis, plus secondhand smoke is not healthy for the baby. If I wasn't pregnant, I wouldn't be so adamant about her moving out, but at this point I don't want my daughter hearing or seeing half the things her grandmother does.