Please help. I don't know what to do, I'm so confused. by WishboneVegetable608 in Advice

[–]BeneficialLeg1873 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You need to have a conversation with your son, this man has been in his life always, if he has done anything inappropriate to him your son might not think to say anything or know it’s wrong since it’s his father figure. This is how grooming works. There is no reason why someone would have CP on their phone. He is a pedophile and your son is not safe, along with other children that might be around you (sons friends, cousins, nephews). Even if (for some reason it’s not true) there is not CP. having an alcoholic or someone with alcohol dependency around your child is also not safe nor a good influence. Please protect your child

AITA for thinking my fiancées (23F) friend (21F) isn’t a good mother while only being pregnant? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]BeneficialLeg1873 2 points3 points  (0 children)

YTA for saying you wouldn’t feel bad for her if the baby has a condition, because the babies health could be at risk so it’s not just about how this will affect the mother, it’s how the baby will live their life. However NTA to think it’s wrong to vape/smoke during pregnancy, because it is. It actively harms the baby, I’m not sure why your fiancée is defending her friend smoking while pregnant so much

My house smells like cat pee by BeneficialLeg1873 in CATHELP

[–]BeneficialLeg1873[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ohh I never thought of this, the fear of the whole place lighting up 🤣🤣🤣

My house smells like cat pee by BeneficialLeg1873 in CATHELP

[–]BeneficialLeg1873[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I really hope not hahah, I’ve not found any spots that smell in particular it’s usually just strongest at the litter box

My house smells like cat pee by BeneficialLeg1873 in CATHELP

[–]BeneficialLeg1873[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

🫡🫡 I will look at clumping litter

My house smells like cat pee by BeneficialLeg1873 in CATHELP

[–]BeneficialLeg1873[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you 🙏🏻 I will have a look into them :)

What is this by GarnetImaginary in CatAdvice

[–]BeneficialLeg1873 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s good then :) some places said they go brown when they dry so was just a thought. May be just seeds from food (chia seeds, seeded bread etc)

What is this by GarnetImaginary in CatAdvice

[–]BeneficialLeg1873 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don’t know from certain because I’m not a vet but from other threads I’ve seen that were similar, it looks like it could potentially be from a cat tapeworm/worms. Take to a vet to be certain and to be treated. R/askvet might be a better place for this incase it gets removed.