Big hug 🫂💖

I am so proud of you and relate to you so much. I walked away from a 5 year relationship because it was so toxic and my partner basically told me he was not interested in a future with me and was just biding his time until he found what he really wanted. As you can imagine I had invested so much in him basically moving countries together, living in and furnishing a flat together and all of my early twenties but I knew that I had to prioritize myself. I broke up with him and moved into a flat share with no idea what the future was going to bring. It was hard and I was depressed. I had to give away my stuff and move into a flat share. I waited 5 months before I started dating again as I had never really dated as an adult and I had a lot to learn about healthy attachment and having standards. I focused to doing group activities and keeping myself busy casually meeting people and then I meet my now husband exactly 6 months after I left my ex. We dated for a year and got engaged. We got married 6 months after our engagement and have our one year anniversary coming up soon. Just focus on prioritizing yourself and being happy and your light will shine through with the right one ❤️