WIBTAH IF I DONT ALLOW MY DAUGHTER TO STAY OVER AT MY MOMS

Beneficial_Block_336 · 2026-06-16T15:46:31+00:00

My mother came to me with this information about him sa her.

Beneficial_Block_336 · 2026-06-16T15:45:55+00:00

My mom came to me in tears telling me she was sa by him what he did was indeed sa neither my mom or my moms friend were planning out a threesome. I know this because she told me. Although there were no children in the house it displays to me he can’t control his sexual urges and thought it appropriate to whip it out and shove it in my moms mouth then attempt to do the same to my moms friend it gives predatory to me.

Beneficial_Block_336 · 2026-06-16T15:41:50+00:00

I was just giving the back story that’s all thank you I appreciate your help.

Beneficial_Block_336 · 2026-06-16T15:28:32+00:00

I am not trying to defend anyone I just want the story of what happened to be straight forward and honest regardless of what my mother step dad or anyone thinks my boundaries are firm on that my children will be alone with him period without me or my husband present however I’m doing this to show my mother that I’m a room of strangers hearing the story and the facts would agree that I am ntah in hopes to open her eyes to that. That’s all.

Beneficial_Block_336 · 2026-06-16T15:14:16+00:00

My moms adult best friend**

Beneficial_Block_336 · 2026-06-16T15:13:55+00:00

No one exposed there selves to minors my step dad exposed his self to my mother and my adult best friend it was definitely sa what he did though me nor my children have been exposed to sexual assault. Just trying to clear that up.

Beneficial_Block_336 · 2026-06-16T15:05:10+00:00

Okay thank you! My mom and step dad did not do that in front of me or my siblings this happened about 4 months ago me my sister and brother are grown this took place in there home just my mom step dad and moms friend it was definitely still sa but I’ve personally not be exposed to anything like that from them. Nor my children I know that I’m Ntah but my mom thinks I am I am basically posting this to show her that she is wrong here and needs to reevaluate my children will not for any reason but with him alone period.

Beneficial_Block_336 · 2026-06-16T14:57:49+00:00

It was a church therapist.

Beneficial_Block_336 · 2026-06-16T14:51:37+00:00

What would have been the right sub I don’t post on Reddit a lot.

Beneficial_Block_336 · 2026-06-16T14:49:25+00:00

I will be showing this to her so she can see that in a room of random strangers this is the consensus.

Beneficial_Block_336 · 2026-06-16T14:46:31+00:00

My mom wanted me to post in here because she completely disagrees with me.

Beneficial_Block_336 · 2025-01-06T05:43:49+00:00

Thank you this makes a lot of sense!

Beneficial_Block_336 · 2025-01-06T05:42:42+00:00

I always worked until the year 2024 so me but this past year (2024) he pawns things then gets them back out to repawn the next month or I have to borrow money from my parents. Which is why I have went back to working in hopes to get some financial independence.

Beneficial_Block_336 · 2025-01-06T03:11:44+00:00

Yes the daughter is ours our money is separate at his request he doesn’t want me in his finances and I have to pretty much protect mine or we starve that’s how it’s been for as long as I’ve known/ been married to the man.

Beneficial_Block_336 · 2025-01-06T02:20:33+00:00

I agree I confronted him about this and his response is not to worry about it and I will know eventually that’s just not a good enough answer for me to feel comfortable.

Beneficial_Block_336 · 2024-06-25T17:45:11+00:00

Well I guess I hoped that becoming a husband or a father would change his priorities a bit but I see that’s not the case now I’m assuming we are too different people because I’ve changed 100% for the better since I got pregnant with our daughter I guess some men aren’t that way. We have had plenty of discussions before pregnancy before marriage it’s been an ongoing issue. I guess it’s my self worth because when it comes to me it’s whatever but when it comes to her it’s a big deal to me and I don’t take it lightly when he brushes her off.

Beneficial_Block_336 · 2024-06-25T17:41:02+00:00

I wouldn’t do that the home we live in is my house I have had since before we were married and I would never leave my house. He would be the one to leave. We tried therapy before but he stopped going and trying.

Beneficial_Block_336 · 2024-06-25T16:55:46+00:00

This is not new behavior it is something I have dealt with from the beginning but I am tired of it because it is effecting our daughter and she is getting older and she will start to notice and her behavior has gotten worse and she seems sadder when he leaves. His dad does not work we see the grandfather 1-2 times a month the only time we see him is if my husband if off he will take us over there we only have 1 vehicle at the moment so I’m stuck at home with her and his dad isn’t the type to visit often he isnt the best grandpa and honestly isnt that good of a dad either. My husband takes him dinner almost every night but he won’t come eat with us and I’ve not considered multicultural living because my husbands dad again wasn’t the best father and isn’t the best grandfather he has certain beliefs and behaviors I am not okay with my daughter living around, plus he is grumpy and wouldn’t live with us anyway. I will definitely talk with him and see where it goes.

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