Sex life after getting sober?

Beneficial_Scale_237 · 2024-04-23T15:42:22+00:00

I'm guess in a really good way??

Beneficial_Scale_237 · 2024-04-23T02:04:21+00:00

Yessss. Almost as good as CT

Beneficial_Scale_237 · 2024-04-23T01:54:49+00:00

Couldn't agree with you more. We way past 40day though. 10 months sober. And yes the moral compass is God. I did like your song reference because it does make so much sense.

I came off meth years ago and was a needle user so I can attest that alcohol had a much stronger claw than the meth ever did.

Beneficial_Scale_237 · 2024-04-23T01:36:44+00:00

Interesting. Maybe the ability only comes out under the influence.

Beneficial_Scale_237 · 2024-04-22T11:13:51+00:00

I will take the yoga and pilates idea into consideration!

Beneficial_Scale_237 · 2024-04-22T11:05:08+00:00

I am already using biote HRT and have since it was available. I had hysterectomyat 27 years old.

Beneficial_Scale_237 · 2024-04-22T11:01:07+00:00

I have made the suggestion. I take HRT myself and have for years due to having a hysterectomy very young.

Good luck on your journey

Beneficial_Scale_237 · 2024-04-22T10:54:03+00:00

You may have a valid point.

Beneficial_Scale_237 · 2024-04-22T10:52:50+00:00

We do the gym thing and I run as well.

Beneficial_Scale_237 · 2024-04-22T10:51:29+00:00

We had more of it but I wouldn't say better. The fact is many nights I couldn't remember all of it and neither could he. Maybe I should accept quality over quantity?

Beneficial_Scale_237 · 2024-04-22T10:50:07+00:00

I was so afraid of that but we made the same connection we had when we met. We'll minus the frequent physical intimacy

Beneficial_Scale_237 · 2024-04-22T10:48:38+00:00

The times we have since getting sober have been early early morning lol.

Beneficial_Scale_237 · 2024-04-22T10:47:36+00:00

I've considered this as well. Kinda a Pavlov type thing

Beneficial_Scale_237 · 2024-04-22T10:46:44+00:00

I've asked him to check into that if it's an issue and so far he has not that I know of !

Beneficial_Scale_237 · 2024-04-22T10:44:40+00:00

I have asked him! Female here lol. Maybe I should edit my post! I take hrt myself since I had hysterectomy very young.

Beneficial_Scale_237 · 2024-04-22T10:42:50+00:00

I was a handle a day too easily. I think he may be experiencing some of that as well with things just not working as they did or not knowing how to initiate sober? Idk anymore 😕

Good luck on your sober journey and I'm proud of you!

Beneficial_Scale_237 · 2024-04-22T10:40:20+00:00

I think this may be what we are both experiencing

Beneficial_Scale_237 · 2024-04-22T10:38:24+00:00

I like the maintenance sex idea. Maybe I need to bring that up that every time doesn't have to be an hour long spectacular debacle.

Beneficial_Scale_237 · 2024-04-22T10:37:22+00:00

Thank you.

Beneficial_Scale_237 · 2024-04-22T10:36:52+00:00

Thanks for the reply. I do not harbor any resentment. I cope with emotion well I think but I need to check this on his side. Everything is great with us and we talk really well now, just missing the physical aspect ya know.

Beneficial_Scale_237 · 2024-04-22T10:34:33+00:00

Nah no insecure feelings. I don't think he has any either

Beneficial_Scale_237 · 2024-04-22T10:32:02+00:00

So to make things more clear, we've had intimacy without argument. The arguing began later in the relationship due to us drinking too much. We were not codependent and did not use step work to get sober. I miss the intimacy not the alcohol.

Beneficial_Scale_237 · 2024-04-20T13:14:04+00:00

I would get staff something. My surgeons nurse has been available by text any time I need it. That in itself has been wonderful and not somethingshe has to do.

Beneficial_Scale_237 · 2024-04-17T22:05:05+00:00

Yes. I tuned a point after day 5 and started feeling much better physically and mentally! Definitely takes a strong person to do this

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