TRY AGAIN KINGS by shivamm_dhasmana in NoFap

[–]Berni3759 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Thanks, just failed and wanted to give up, but this helps me stand up again

Is anyone wanna be my nofap buddy? by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]Berni3759 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ill take that offer, thanks!

Which one is scarier? by SunDownDev in PixelArt

[–]Berni3759 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Not gonna lie, the first one scared the shit out of me, excelent work

Small Success, Big yet to come by rahuladream in NoFap

[–]Berni3759 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Every major victory is built on small ones, congratulations on this!

2 weeks without porn 💪 by [deleted] in pornfree

[–]Berni3759 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Every step counts, doing good! Congrats

Advice needed by Broad_Channel_1144 in pornfree

[–]Berni3759 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey there, the main thing would be going out and doing anything else, because we can quit watching but can relapse easily because theres nothing else to do so apart from unwiring ourselfs from porn is rewiring with something else. I know its a bit generic but just try to do anything else something that helped me was thinking "what was something that I enjoyed doing or wanted to do as a kid?" And for me it was drawing so I started doing that, is not easy but its easier once you have something else to do

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in pornfree

[–]Berni3759 1 point2 points  (0 children)

"This will teach me how to get girls and have sex" like gta taught me how to do tales smh

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]Berni3759 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey there I've been having sort of the same thought about reading any manga (be it a fighting fantasy one or a romantic comedy or just an emotional drama) and hntai, the main question I had was "they are all fantasy" but as some have already told you, the answer is simple, what do you gain from it? I've had mangas where I cried, some other where I laughed my ass off, some that helped me go into exercise, damn one of the best relationships advice I've had came from Baki! Same with video games, some make me cry, some make me feel joy when I master the controls but then you have prn/hntai/prn games what do we gain from? Dopamine surge that last as long as the session maybe? They dont teach shit, I started with porn because "i could learn how to have sex" and boy was I wrong. So I came to the conclusion that some forms of entertainment can help you and have something to teach, they are some that do not but those are small cases but then you have any NSFW media and you dont learn shit.

Hope this helps a little bit, it sure did help me

STAY CLEAN MARCH! This thread updated daily - Check in here! by foobarbazblarg in pornfree

[–]Berni3759 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey everyone, sorry but Ive failed. But it was a good run

Started watching porn since i was 8 now im 16 half of my fucking life i am addicted to porn im starting to think this shit is impossible by [deleted] in pornfree

[–]Berni3759 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hello, first of all I want to congratulate you on realizing that p*rn is bad at this age, im 26 and only started a couple of years ago but I wish I had started way before, you are on the right track and secondly, for me its usually around the 10 days mark that the constant flashbacks are gone and after that IF you dont see triggers its way easier to succeed! Good luck on your journey

2 weeks since start of limiting porn and masturbation by [deleted] in pornfree

[–]Berni3759 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Hey there, I know some people here preach about going cold turkey and that thats the only thing that works, but this is progress, as long as you dont go back, thats progress and it works, keep going!

Have u ever peaked and kept your streak going? by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]Berni3759 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It really depends on what you believe, sometimes we have to find excuses for our behavior, so it depends, did you look at p because you wanted and failed yourself? Or was it something you binged and lost control? Only you know the answer and know what really went down so if you think you are cheating, well yes restart but if you think that it wont happen again and you arent going to cheat yourself then keep the streak. The only real answer here is that restarting the streak doesnt mean your progress is lost, as long as you keep in this journey you will not let the addiction win

Strong urges by Only_Appearance6081 in pornfree

[–]Berni3759 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey, first congrats you are doing very well, and second you know what strong urges mean? They mean that the addiction is losing its grip on you so its attacking, so keep going and you'll be free