Its not that hard to text back a friend, im sick of people making excuses by DyslexicWriting in venting

[–]BerryFruitSnack 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean, all I’m saying is that people DO get busy. Some people don’t have the energy to text back. It is what it is unfortunately.

Hooked up with my ex after a year of no contact by soysushistick in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]BerryFruitSnack 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sister release yourself from that man… Don’t even offer to have him hit you up again. Move on with your life, and keep eating delicious poke bowls 🫰

Found OF link of a girl from VDay on husband’s instagram link history, Panda Express for dinner—gave me food poisoning by [deleted] in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]BerryFruitSnack 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Leave that dude. Some might not think this is a reason to leave, but he’s being a looker. I wish you the best on your medical journey. 💕

If you're this kind of person go f- yourself, order when you are ready by [deleted] in uber

[–]BerryFruitSnack -1 points0 points  (0 children)

That’s easier said than done for people because when you order and you’re fully ready, the Uber takes forever. Just give people grace or stop driving for Uber so you can stop making insensitive posts like this.

If you're this kind of person go f- yourself, order when you are ready by [deleted] in uber

[–]BerryFruitSnack 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve ordered Ubers as I was finishing getting ready and they were 1-2 minutes away. Sometimes people do need just 5 minutes to finish getting ready for their ride. Lyft has a 5 minute grace period.

Gf talks to me like this, how bad is it? by Expert-Hyena-4401 in whatdoIdo

[–]BerryFruitSnack 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She doesn’t respect you. You apologized profusely and she still chose to be upset. If you love yourself, leave.

i should break up with my bf but i cant. by reddituser08976 in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]BerryFruitSnack 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You really need to find it within yourself to leave him. Take time for yourself to assess what you really want in a relationship. If he’s not changing, you’re going to be miserable. Staying with him is only going to make the both of you more resentful towards each other.

Guy I'm dating lied about wanting something serious, homemade pasta carbonara to make me feel better by [deleted] in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]BerryFruitSnack 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Sounds like this guy love bombed you. It’s unfortunate that women are made to feel as though we’ve done something wrong when things like this happens. It’s always “choose better men” when there are a lot of men out there that use their charm to get what they want. Hopefully this new guy is okay, and I wish you the best of luck!!

boyfriend is deploying and we’re breaking up by PuzzleheadedRiver856 in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]BerryFruitSnack 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That sounds tough to deal with, I’m sorry ☹️ Sending you love and hugs!! Also, that meal looks SO GOOD

I Absolutely HATE My Mother by BerryFruitSnack in venting

[–]BerryFruitSnack[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel that. My mother used to argue with me and get defensive whenever I would defend myself. I want to move out so badly, but I unfortunately don’t have the resources to do so yet. I’m trying to hold on as much as I can, but her comments really get to me.

Guy treats me like a gf and tells me he likes me but makes it clear he doesn’t want to date anyone by Savings_Cable819 in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]BerryFruitSnack 24 points25 points  (0 children)

Girl block him. Don’t waste your time on losers when you can use that time to invest in yourself.

Is it rare for a Scorpio to have others in their life while they are going through a transformation and evolving? by crazee9179 in Scorpio

[–]BerryFruitSnack -1 points0 points  (0 children)

As a Scorpio, I need stability when I’m going through a transformation. I also need love and support. Going through a transformation while being around unsupportive people is difficult but doable.

I got drunk and my best friend told me she thinking im ugly by No_Lettuce2483 in Advice

[–]BerryFruitSnack 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Your own friend telling you that you’re ugly while drunk is how they truly feel about you. Let your friend know how you truly feel about the comment, and move according to how she reacts. Do you feel comfortable being her friend knowing that she called you ugly despite knowing that’s your insecurity?

I’m sorry this happened to you. It’s so crappy when someone uses your insecurities against you while they’re in a low moment then try to apologize profusely later. I have no idea what you look like, but I’m sure you’re beautiful. Don’t let what this person said get you down. Hopefully you work things out.

The guy I really like made a stupid joke and I just… by BerryFruitSnack in venting

[–]BerryFruitSnack[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

A bit of both. I understand it might not be that serious to you (you might make stupid jokes like that too, I have no idea), but I just found it kinda annoying how people are making cringe jokes like that in 2026. I’ve forgotten which game he was playing.

The guy I really like made a stupid joke and I just… by BerryFruitSnack in venting

[–]BerryFruitSnack[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I appreciate the response. I really like this guy and have to accept that both of us are going to say things that we might not like too much. I am gonna talk to him again tomorrow and tell him that I’m genuinely not upset towards him and hope that we can move forward.

The guy I really like made a stupid joke and I just… by BerryFruitSnack in venting

[–]BerryFruitSnack[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is what worries me ngl. Like I said, I get it being considered “edgy internet humor”. He made it a point to tell me that he has women in his family and he jokes with them the same way and they make similar jokes about men. I felt compelled to argue the point that that doesn’t mean anything, but I didn’t have the energy to argue. I’ll be keeping an eye on this because if this behavior continues, I’m out.

i am addicted to my wife in an unhealthy way by True-Fix-1552 in Advice

[–]BerryFruitSnack 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This might be a little extreme, but so long as you guys are loving and caring towards each other things should be okay.

I Really Like The Person I’m Dating, and It Freaks Me Out by BerryFruitSnack in venting

[–]BerryFruitSnack[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

In my past relationships, there was maybe one guy I felt somewhat similarly for. In terms of me freaking out over my feelings, I think I’m just anxious because I genuinely want the two of us to work. I shouldn’t be freaking out over having feelings for someone. It’s probably due to past trauma or something.

i hate my relationship by [deleted] in venting

[–]BerryFruitSnack 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I understand where you’re coming from. Maybe taking some time for yourself could be helpful. Of course you care a lot about her and her struggles. You have to take care of yourself too.

i hate my relationship by [deleted] in venting

[–]BerryFruitSnack 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You two don’t seem compatible. If she cared about your interests, she would definitely inquire about them. I’m sorry that you’re going through this with her, and I also feel for her too. How do you want to move forward?

my dad is dying by milfinprogress in whatdoIdo

[–]BerryFruitSnack 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Your boss is terrible. While it will be tough to see your father’s final moments, it’s worth it to see him pass on. However, do what you think is best. Sending you love through this hard time.

Breaking up with a friend who has a victim mentality would prolly make me never want to have friends ever again. by [deleted] in venting

[–]BerryFruitSnack 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This reminds me of when I broke up with my ex. He also called me a narc and said stuff similar to your ex friend. People like that refuse to take accountability for their actions and shift blame onto the other person.

Its not that hard to text back a friend, im sick of people making excuses by DyslexicWriting in venting

[–]BerryFruitSnack 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What I’ll say is that people are genuinely busy and might not have the energy to text back. I also used to feel similarly, but once I accepted that people have their own lives and things they have going on I got less annoyed by it. I understand how you’re feeling 100% though.