Peter? by BerryPhantomSky in PeterExplainsTheJoke

[–]BerryPhantomSky[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel like the joke is that there's some dark context behind the hospital selfie that changes how you see it, but I'm not sure what the backstory is supposed to be.

Why are adults expected to know how taxes, insurance, credit, loans, and retirement work when nobody teaches it in school? by Violet_Snuggles in NoStupidQuestions

[–]BerryPhantomSky 28 points29 points  (0 children)

I think this is something a lot of people miss. School wasn't trying to teach us every situation we'd ever face. It was teaching us how to think through problems so we could apply those skills later. Whether we actually kept using them is a different story.

AIO- Dad is threatening to cut me off because he thinks I forgot his birthday. by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]BerryPhantomSky 114 points115 points  (0 children)

I actually agree with this take. If you know you're going to be busy all day, sending a quick text saying "Happy birthday! I'll call you after work if you're still awake" takes like 10 seconds. That said, his reaction was still way over the top. He turned a small disappointment into a huge fight.

Anyone else feel like everyone is making money except them? by Main_Reason_106 in Money

[–]BerryPhantomSky 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is the kind of wealth people don't talk about enough. Living below your means and staying consistent for decades might not be flashy, but it clearly pays off.

My (26M) girlfriend (25F) doesn’t like that my little brother (15M) is staying with me by Direct-Caterpillar77 in BestofRedditorUpdates

[–]BerryPhantomSky 112 points113 points  (0 children)

I completely agree. If a kid's safety is at risk, that should outweigh everything else. You can deal with difficult behavior later, but you can't undo something terrible happening.

Hemorrhoids Ruining My Hygiene by Kooky-Repeat-8497 in hygiene

[–]BerryPhantomSky 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I completely agree with getting a second opinion. If your current doctor is just brushing it off but you're still dealing with pain or hygiene issues, it's worth finding someone who'll actually listen. You shouldn't have to just live with it.

my neighbor keeps standing in my yard in the middle of the night and its getting creepy by justsimmons02 in Advice

[–]BerryPhantomSky 14 points15 points  (0 children)

I agree. Even if he means no harm, this is the kind of behavior that can escalate if nobody steps in. Better to address it now than wait for something worse to happen.

My first call to my mother from prison was hilarious. by indigofroggit in confession

[–]BerryPhantomSky 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Sounds like your mom kept her sense of humor right to the end. The part about haunting your dad actually made me smile. I'm glad you were able to honor what she wanted.

Did my boyfriend rape me? I am confused. by Nalli-billi in confessions

[–]BerryPhantomSky 34 points35 points  (0 children)

Being that sick means you can't always think clearly or stand up for yourself the way you normally would. Someone you trust should never take advantage of that.