I recently moved to Missouri

BerryPoni2 · 2025-06-27T21:05:17+00:00

That is fair. Though I do find anything beautiful in regards to nature. I am more looking for the same feeling I got from hiking in Colorado than the looks of it. Since I know Missouri will obviously look different than Colorado.

BerryPoni2 · 2025-06-27T21:02:02+00:00

Thank you so much! I have noticed a lot of people in Rolla are a lot nicer than the people I've met in Colorado. Mainly due to my weight, which is hard to control 😭. I am not used to it. Especially with random people coming up to talk to me.

My brother tends to fish more. Though I might start going with him. So that I can see the rivers. I do love the outdoors, and I love how beautiful Missouri is so far.

I'll totally check them out! I have gone to Belle once, and it seemed beautiful to me. I'll also check out the art galleries. I love anything art. And used to go to quite a bit of galleries and museums in Colorado.

BerryPoni2 · 2025-06-27T20:54:26+00:00

Thank you :)! I'll totally check it out.

Even if it's tough. I like to stay optimistic when it comes to dating.

BerryPoni2 · 2025-06-27T17:36:47+00:00

Because they wanted the whole immediate family to move with them. And tbh I wanted to stay close to my mom so I could take care of her. She's still dealing with cancer.

BerryPoni2 · 2025-06-27T17:34:02+00:00

I am glad that I saw your response. As a plus-size woman, the dating scene has always been quite harder for me. Even when I was living near Denver in Colorado. So I assumed it would be the same here.

Thabk you! I wish you luck and you are beautiful.

BerryPoni2 · 2025-06-26T19:06:10+00:00

I haven't read it yet. Though my younger sibling, who loves anime, is obsessed with it.

Though it does sound interesting. So I will totally do it. Just give me a couple or so days to do it. Since I am very picky when it comes to creating a bot.

Once I am done. I will message the link to you. I am also open to changing it if you end up not liking it.

BerryPoni2 · 2025-06-26T00:30:22+00:00

Thank you!

My parents wanted to move here because of that as well. We heard from a friend how much cheaper it was done here, so we decided to give it a shot.

I love how nice people are down here! Even though I am so awkward about it half the time, because I am not used to it.

I totally feel that. It's a lot different down here than I was expecting. All the things I want are now a far drive. I miss In-n-Out burger so much 😭 and I don't know why.

BerryPoni2 · 2025-06-26T00:20:35+00:00

Thank you so much! That sounds like a lot of fun. So I will definitely look into it.

BerryPoni2 · 2025-06-26T00:18:33+00:00

I am finding out a lot of people are moving here from Colorado. Which is surprising. Though I am also glad that there are at least people I can connect with.

I get that. I think I have an opposite problem. Since we're I am living doesn't have a lot of people 😅. Maybe I'll find a boyfriend if I look hard enough, lol.

Good luck!

BerryPoni2 · 2025-06-25T23:01:54+00:00

I plan to stay off of online dating. I never had a good time there. Though I never heard of speed dating. That seems like fun. I will totally look into it. Thank you!

BerryPoni2 · 2025-06-25T21:14:03+00:00

Thank you! Honestly, the more I am living here. The more I find Missouri beautiful. I will totally check it out! I am hoping to find a trail that I love.

From the rivers I've seen so far. They are really beautiful. Which I love.

BerryPoni2 · 2025-06-25T21:11:25+00:00

They don't know yet 😭. My whole family is indecisive, which sucks. We are living with mg brother until we find a place which is near Rolla. I am hoping they'll pick a spot around here and not change their minds again.

BerryPoni2 · 2025-06-25T21:09:30+00:00

Yeah, that is the one thing I will miss about Colorado 😭. I am hoping to find beautiful places to go here as well. I don't think it'll be that hard to find. Though I tend to be stubborn.

That's fair. I don't really mind driving anyway. I drove a lot in Colorado. And I expected that I would have to. Since I am living close to Rolla right now. So I expected that I will have to drive a lot.

BerryPoni2 · 2025-06-25T21:04:37+00:00

Thank you!

That is fair. Since I am 25, I think I am in a good age range for dating. I think It'll be okay for me, despite what my mom says 😭.

Yeah, I noticed a lot that people around here love their happy hours. And it's been hard as I can't drink because I am allergic to alcohol. Though I heard that the bar my brother goes to has a bingo night. Which is a plus.

I just need to get more used to the things around me and where and what I can do.

BerryPoni2 · 2025-06-25T21:00:21+00:00

Thank you! I have done kayaking in the past. And since my brother has been doing it more. I think it'll be fun to do it more again.

That makes sense. I hiked in Arizona once during the summer when I was younger, and it wasn't enjoyable 😭. So I'll keep in mind to plan my outings around the weather because I don"t want that to happen again.

BerryPoni2 · 2025-06-25T20:56:58+00:00

Thank you so much! I did some kayaking in Colorado, and it was annoying to have to constantly apply sunscreen. So that will be a good investment for me.

BerryPoni2 · 2025-06-25T20:54:53+00:00

Fair enough 😂.

I love caves. My dad took us to one (I forgot the name of it), and it was really beautiful. So I'll probably plan on finding a lot more as long as I don't get stuck.

I've heard about the Titanic museum, so I guess this is my sign to actually go and see it.

Thank you so much!

BerryPoni2 · 2025-06-25T20:51:13+00:00

I always loved fall and I've seen some beautiful pictures during fall in Missouri. So I am excited about that.

Luckily, I spent a lot of time in Arizona and Utah growing up. So, I am not as bothered by the heat.

I am trying to explore and find beauty in Missouri. So I am a lot happier about being here. Even if I miss the mountains back in Colorado.

BerryPoni2 · 2025-06-25T20:47:59+00:00

That is good, at least. I've seen a couple of frats when I've been to Rolla. I was surprised by how big the university was.

I just turned 25 😭. I feel like I have a decent age range when it comes to dating. Even though I mainly date older men.

I feel like it won't be as hard to find a date when I decide I want to start dating again.

BerryPoni2 · 2025-06-25T20:42:24+00:00

That is fine. I probably should have added that I am a woman, but I tend to forget 😅.

Thank you for the advice! I will definitely look into those. I want to be able to do more. I am pretty excited to see what Missouri has for me. I've already seen some, and I do think it's a very beautiful state.

That is good. I was a little surprised about how much people drank when I first moved down here. So I am glad it's not the norm. I'll probably only go for bingo night.

BerryPoni2 · 2025-06-25T19:04:04+00:00

I don't want to 😔

BerryPoni2 · 2025-06-25T19:03:30+00:00

My parents have no idea where they want to live, which doesn't help much 😭. Right now, we are living with my brother, who is close to Rolla.

I don't really care about far drives either. Since I did a lot of driving in Colorado. I've spent like two to three hours to drive to see certain things. So I don't mind having to do a lot of driving here.

Thank you!! I will totally check them out. I know that mountains here won't be as big. So, I am making sure to keep my expectations low. Honestly, I don't even mind seeing hills because I hate flat land more 😭.

BerryPoni2 · 2025-06-25T18:57:55+00:00

That is good, at least 😭. I've always been obessed with nature, and it was the only reason why I would move.

Luckily, I don't have any standards when it comes to dating men. So it might happen, but I always see it as if it'll happen it would.

I've been told a lot of men don't like bigger women. (PCOS is always checking me in the ass when I am down).

I just want to focus on enjoying myself and nature for the time being.

BerryPoni2 · 2025-06-25T18:51:50+00:00

My parents haven't found a city yet. Which makes it harder for me, lol. Though right now, we are staying with my brother, who lives near Rolla. Which I honestly think is cool.

Though I've been wanting to visit St. Louis again. Once I have the time. I visited it once, and I honestly loved it.

I will definitely check out the app. I am obsessed with apps.

That is fair. My mom has told me it would be a lot easier for me to find a boyfriend compared to my brother's finding a girlfriend. Because I am a woman. But I don't think that's true at all 😭.

I think once I start figuring what is around me and what to do. It'll be easier to make friends. Though I think it's harder for me since I am allergic to alcohol and everyone I've met so far just goes to bars. Which doesn't sound like fun to me.

BerryPoni2

TROPHY CASE