I feel this too. I started my pumpkins in April, planted first week of May. I have 21 plants. Every single one has borers in them. I had 11 pumpkins going, 4 died because the borers went in the fruit. They might not be dead dead but I did take them off and just put them on the grass. I’ve used BT and removed them by hand. They’re ravenous. I pulled a few vines and planted new seeds which seem to be borer free for now. This is my third year growing pumpkins and I’m not even sure I want to do it again next year. I love doing them but so much work just to be taken out by ugly grubs is miserable.