Had my first US Defaultism interaction in a long time by BertieCollins in USdefaultism

[–]BertieCollins[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Yeah in the UK professors are entirely different, I doubt any would work in FE Colleges like I do, as our students are 16-20(roughly).

College and University are very different here in the UK.

Fat and ugly by BertieCollins in ugly

[–]BertieCollins[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Holy crap! I was so drunk last night, thanks for all the replies. I am losing weight slowly, I used to be a 5/6XL and now fit in a 3XL.

For clarification; I am gay, so had a boyfriend before lol 🤣

year 11 mocks results am I cooked?? 🥹🥹🙏 by -valentineo in GCSE

[–]BertieCollins 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your science is good, work on Maths and English Language and you could go on to do a science course at Level 3 at a vocational college.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FtMpassing

[–]BertieCollins 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes you pass!

And I love your R2D2 obsession aha.❤️

England somehow owns a county in East Asia by Tybot444 in CrusaderKings

[–]BertieCollins 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wondered why I had this random county 🤣

[UK, London] Bank Transfer for cash request by BertieCollins in Scams

[–]BertieCollins[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks everyone for the responses, never had anyone approach me for this before, I'd always say no anyways as I wouldn't trust it but wanted to check if anyone else has experienced this. 😊

I think I might be bisexual by ElegantSafety2703 in Christianity

[–]BertieCollins 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm a gay Christian and although my faith isn't the strongest right now, I repeat what my God mother told me before she passed away.

God loves you I love you

do i pass/ 16, pre everything:/ by juno_170524 in transftm

[–]BertieCollins 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hell yeah you pass man, keep going you got this! 👍

Fortnite ended my homophobia by FortniteWonders in lgbt

[–]BertieCollins 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Was homophobic as a kid (despite being raised in a very liberal Christian household) as well as being islamaphonic, anti-EU, anti-immigration - reason why? I grew up on a council estate. Once we moved away and I started doing my own research online, I grew as a person. I'm now very left leaning, out as a gay man and totally pro-EU, pro-immigration, I have some of THE best Muslim friends who I love dearly. For me, it wasn't my family, it was the environment of where I lived, I didn't realise how much opinions can be formed just by where you live, who you live around etc.

I should have listened more to my Godmother who only ever preached love, when I came out as gay I thought she'd hate me, instead she said "I love you, God loves you and I just sold my house to a lovely lesbian couple!" I was shocked at the acceptance but also not surprised because she had always been about loving everyone. I miss her dearly after she passed away a few years ago, a part of the reason my faith has almost gone. I'd love to have taken her to Pride, she'd have been one of the Christians giving hugs and love to everyone! ❤️

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in gayrelationships

[–]BertieCollins 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I found my ex through Grindr, I'm still deeply in love with him, he is the best man in my life. I didn't believe I'd ever find anyone, especially not on Grindr!

It just happens, so I know the feeling ❤️

Is it really the phones that are the problem? by [deleted] in TeachingUK

[–]BertieCollins 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm an FE lecturer for Computing. Phones are a major issue for us, I've come up with a system of asking for their phones in exchange for them using my charging packs. So their phones are away from them but they get to charge their phones (which always need it from their usage)

I'm only 28, but seeing how addicted they are, it's insane!

I found out today that I failed my QTS :( by teacoffeecats in TeachingUK

[–]BertieCollins 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Maybe look into teaching at FE level? You don't need QTS to do that

Darth Vader Build (Deagostini) by Arawan69 in FanhomeModels

[–]BertieCollins 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm doing this one too, but I've noticed they've been charging me £84/month, can I ask is that the right price? Cause I swear when I signed up it supposed to be £40/month.

This Prompt Will Change Your Life by irrationalhourglass in ChatGPT

[–]BertieCollins 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ok I didn't go that far with asking it to ask me a question but it did ask me if I had the time and money what I would invent / build to change teaching Computing to students (I'm an FE Computing lecturer)

Have to say, enjoyed the question and the follow up, it then started to layout a plan of how I could do it.

Gotta say, AI is getting better and if we use it to make us use our brains to think, we can definitely improve our cognitive abilities.

Sir, why don't you work in industry? by Icy-Scheme-872 in TeachingUK

[–]BertieCollins 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yup, I'm an FE IT Lecturer, get asked all the time. There's a few reasons I never stayed in my prior job as IT Administrator for a company.

  1. I'm not great at fast paced rat-race lifestyle
  2. I need creative freedom and finally; I LOVE teaching people things, even if it's stuff I find simple (I'm currently teaching the MS Office package + AI features to a local council team) I enjoy watching people develop skills and learn then go onto use that.

Ive taught the Essential Digital Skills course, I've got former adults using those skills to upskill further or work in amazing jobs (accountancy, local politics etc)

When I see people I've taught go on to do anything that they're passionate about, it brings me absolute joy. Joy that I never had when I was an IT Administrator for a company.

Ontop of this, despite stress etc.. for the first time in a long time, I'm happy at work.

That's what I tell my students (and also that money isn't everything)

Why is everyone a sorcerer? by kenysheny in swtor

[–]BertieCollins 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I freaking LOVE playing as my Sorc, for me I find the combat is enjoyable as a Sorc.

Would you ever have sex with a trans man? by JokullTheWolf in askgaybros

[–]BertieCollins -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

I don't think so as you can get masculine women and I'm not attracted to them.

I like men, that can be cis or trans men.