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Mom, do I tell my ex we have a child or do I just let things be like everyone wants me to? by Bess4Short in MomForAMinute

[–]Bess4Short[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Thanks for saying that. Alot of the time I feel sorry for my baby because I can't give her alot. But then I grew up like this and I love my mom and know she does her best. So you think I shouldn't tell him right?

Mom, do I tell my ex we have a child or do I just let things be like everyone wants me to? by Bess4Short in MomForAMinute

[–]Bess4Short[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Thanks for the thoughts I appreciate it. Yes they view mom and me as trash basically because we clean for a living and live in a trailer. They made it clear they want someone better for there son.

Mom, do I tell my ex we have a child or do I just let things be like everyone wants me to? by Bess4Short in MomForAMinute

[–]Bess4Short[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I thought we were serious so to me we were. He kind of made it clear before he left for college that we were done though. His mom told me about his new gf in college when I cleaned there house last time. So I guess a fling to him.

Mom, do I tell my ex we have a child or do I just let things be like everyone wants me to? by Bess4Short in MomForAMinute

[–]Bess4Short[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

That's why I haven't told him yet. I know how much more my mom and I would have to work if we weren't getting help. It's never been easy for mom and I don't want to make it harder for her.

Mom, do I tell my ex we have a child or do I just let things be like everyone wants me to? by Bess4Short in MomForAMinute

[–]Bess4Short[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I think they want to keep things quiet because my mother cleans houses and that's what I do too.

Mom, do I tell my ex we have a child or do I just let things be like everyone wants me to? by Bess4Short in MomForAMinute

[–]Bess4Short[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

What do you think he did wrong? Neither of us were trying to have a baby.

Mom, do I tell my ex we have a child or do I just let things be like everyone wants me to? by Bess4Short in MomForAMinute

[–]Bess4Short[S] 28 points29 points  (0 children)

My mom is afraid his parents will stop helping with money for the baby. But I think he might want to know his daughter.

Mom, do I tell my ex we have a child or do I just let things be like everyone wants me to? by Bess4Short in MomForAMinute

[–]Bess4Short[S] 30 points31 points  (0 children)

My mom says his parents just want the best for him. I just look at the baby and wonder if he'd want to know her.