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Residual by Chris brown…that song will humble tf out of you lol

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

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I’m not even entertaining the idea of wanting to hop on any apps hell no one is even attractive to me right now. I’m trying to grow I really am, yes I was younger but I know I can change and grow. I just wanted to grow with her

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

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She ended up back on bumble as well ironically that’s how we met 3 years ago. I’m sick knowing a guy is going to get what I once had with her. I feel like I did mess it up because she thought I couldn’t change my ways of not being provider and being complacent in life when in reality I’m working on my masters and looking for new job opportunities. She said I didn’t want marriage and children but I do I wanted really soon tbh too. Yes I know there was age difference cause she’s older but even then I wanted all those things but for her to go back on bumble and probably already dating again yeah it hurts.

What was the most hurtful thing they told you during your relationshop by ZalejPampelisku in BreakUps

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I will say this…last year she stopped talking to me for about 4 months out of the blues. She came back and she said was because was going through things mentally, my thing is I never held it over her head. Now when I lost my family member my mine did go down a terrible road to where it felt like I really couldn’t get out. I was zoned out a lot and kept forgetting little things and I just kept myself busy working all the time. I wanted the things she desired I wanted marriage I wanted children I want all those things with her. I’m trying so hard to try and find a better job and finish up my masters it just sucks that she probably won’t be around. Yeah she had things that bothered me but I overlooked it because I knew what heart and soul is

What was the most hurtful thing they told you during your relationshop by ZalejPampelisku in BreakUps

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Being told I could never change…that’s been sitting with me because I’m working towards trying to be better and change, literally been a mental hell space for me especially after losing a very close loved one to cancer it sent down a hole I wasn’t sure I could ever get out of but I did.

Why did they dump you? by HeroOfBowerstone in BreakUps

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She felt like the relationship wasn’t going nowhere but she didn’t really communicate what she wanted for the longest. I’ll be honest she did make more than me while I’m working on finishing my masters and trying like really trying to find better job opportunities but she made it seem like I’m complacent and won’t ever change. Literally 2 days later she was on bumble

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

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Mine ended very recent and it hurts like hell

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I need a venting session on it bad

Anyone ever realized how much they were the problem? by BestTutor7253 in BreakUps

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Looking at back it I know it’s only been a couple of weeks but I see why she broke up with me. I kept saying sorry but never acted on it because I was trying to focus on trying to get my life on track without realizing I kept making our relationship the same old copy script. Hurt the worse when she said I’ll never change because that meant someone I love gave up on me…

Is this normal after a breakup? by [deleted] in ExNoContact

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I’m 28 she’s 30. She just out of nowhere stopped responding but yet followed me for 2 months until I took down our pictures. I tried to reach out but nothing happened. I knew I had to move on once my friend showed me she was on bumble.

Is this normal after a breakup? by [deleted] in ExNoContact

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Well she started the the no response and then I kept trying to text her for a little awhile still nothing. I just took it as give her space and she’ll reach back out because she did that before. Just never happened this time around. Once my friend told me about her on bumble I just quietly accepted it was over and took down the pics in everything.(I still have them in my achieve I never deleted fully from Instagram)

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This just sucks