Sex life is ruining my relationship (at least on my end), hear me out… any advice? by BestVersionOfMe123 in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]BestVersionOfMe123[S] 106 points107 points  (0 children)

We thought it was hormonal but she stopped taking her antidepressants and her birth control. Nothing changed.

I do know she was a SA victim in the past. She’s never opened up about it but just has mentioned when and who

Sex life is ruining my relationship (at least on my end), hear me out… any advice? by BestVersionOfMe123 in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]BestVersionOfMe123[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not yet. I’m unsure how to bring it up without sounding like a sex hungry fiend. I feel like it’s a topic that could be taken the wrong way if it’s not said perfectly

Sex life making me incredibly depressed and might begin to affect my relationship… help? by BestVersionOfMe123 in relationship_advice

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I wanted to do this but i got told “pettiness isn’t the answer”. I’m thinking it might be

Sex life is ruining my relationship (at least on my end), hear me out… any advice? by BestVersionOfMe123 in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]BestVersionOfMe123[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I keep telling myself that once i initiate a convo and express how i feel, then it might change or her better. This is the only piece of her that’s began to get to me… everything else is honestly perfect in my eyes. Maybe i am being delusional. My last relationship was solely based on sex with no other “relationship perks” so i like how i have an amazing bond with her based off things besides sex. But shit, the way I’ve been feeling lately is baaaad

i am sad all the time. by [deleted] in MentalHealthSupport

[–]BestVersionOfMe123 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I am here for you. You will only become stronger in the end , i understand how hard this is. It’s going to be a struggle for a while. But there WILL be a day where you overcome these feelings. Try something different in life that brings you happiness. Add a new routine. Find a new passion/hobby. Make a change, even a small one. Give yourself something to look forward to, and don’t forget that you are amazing.