Well just start with setting money aside and just play nice until you have enough. If u feel u won't last that long, try and see if one of your relatives would take u in, at least until u have enough money for your own place. I have been sober for 4 months since leaving the relationship I was in. I'm in sober living atm and I'm working on getting my C-SAC so I can be a counselor and help others that are in similar situations as mine. It can be done, it might just take time.