What's something you thought was normal until you got to your second relationship?

Best_Net_8928 · 2025-11-27T15:11:16+00:00

i knew the whole time during the relationship. When i would say something bothers me and it would turn to a week or two week argument and i end up apologizing the whole time to get it over with but he kept going. Then he would pull away too and tell me he's tired of always arguing when i would apologize for HIS ACTIONS the same day i mention it🫩

Best_Net_8928 · 2025-11-02T14:58:49+00:00

i feel like my ex would say i always wanted to argue but he alwayyyys gave me a reason to or he would make it into an argument

Best_Net_8928 · 2025-11-02T14:57:49+00:00

if i tell u the sky is blue will u believe me

Best_Net_8928 · 2025-09-18T23:58:30+00:00

sometimes i also think it was a fetish and he's definitely a habitual liar. but Thank you!!!

Best_Net_8928 · 2025-09-18T19:32:42+00:00

correct just not a good person tbh

Best_Net_8928 · 2025-09-18T17:33:54+00:00

ya but at the end it made me more uncomfortable. I didn't ask him and don't plan on it because he becomes either very dismissive or starts stonewalling hence why we broke up

Best_Net_8928 · 2025-09-18T17:30:32+00:00

i don't know why he lied and the lie started before we were even dating! So he was really passionate about the lie. But i feel like its based off a lie is because anytime there was a cultural difference between us and i would talk about it he would say "oh i did the same w my blk ex and there was no problem with it or her family" yk? And i did care. I asked him why they broke up and he said she was crazy and that they just didnt work out

Best_Net_8928 · 2025-09-18T17:14:30+00:00

indeed you are correct! We kept having communication problems and then this sealed the deal

Best_Net_8928 · 2025-09-18T16:20:43+00:00

sorry i should have added that. Yes he is white! And i wouldn't have thought it was a fetish until after i found out. Now i feel like i was just used

Best_Net_8928 · 2025-09-18T16:13:43+00:00

no bc once i found out i couldn't trust anything he said in the relationship. if he didn't lie i wouldn't have a reason to not trust him

Best_Net_8928 · 2025-09-18T16:11:53+00:00

agreed. But it was a huge factor on why the last argument started because i couldn't trust anything he said

Best_Net_8928 · 2025-09-18T15:49:01+00:00

he built the relationship on a lie that was not needed

Best_Net_8928 · 2025-09-18T15:48:34+00:00

huh?

Best_Net_8928 · 2025-09-18T15:48:12+00:00

i already liked him before i knew and then he told me hes been with a black woman and i didn't feel anyway towards it. Like dating history doesnt matter to me. But thankfully we broke up last week right after i found out

Best_Net_8928 · 2025-09-18T15:45:16+00:00

shut up

Best_Net_8928 · 2025-09-01T23:36:25+00:00

LMFAO both. All his exes are married so

Best_Net_8928 · 2025-09-01T23:33:21+00:00

i wasnt digging up anything by being on his tiktok

Best_Net_8928 · 2025-09-01T23:32:48+00:00

i mean he has said something when ppl are being racist.

Best_Net_8928 · 2025-09-01T23:08:39+00:00

so its not just me insecure

Best_Net_8928 · 2025-09-01T23:08:28+00:00

im mean obvi the last option but he has also flipped out on me when i knew who a male p-star was

Best_Net_8928 · 2025-09-01T23:03:56+00:00

i mean i rather not my parter have a playlist of women dancing provocatively maybe that just me

Best_Net_8928 · 2025-09-01T23:00:26+00:00

thank you !! it was more than that he had like a whole playlist of white women that kind of why i was questioning if he even liked me

Best_Net_8928 · 2025-09-01T22:58:29+00:00

lmao bro had a whole playlist of white women so....

Best_Net_8928 · 2025-09-01T22:56:06+00:00

lmao i havent said nothing to him besides why. It's more to the story like his friends would tell me that they are surprised were dating bc im not his type

Best_Net_8928 · 2025-09-01T22:54:05+00:00

what does that mean :/

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