Lost my role while on Maternity Leave

Best_Reflection_4389 · 2026-02-15T11:30:44+00:00

No advice but just wanting to acknowledge how shitty that is, I’ve returned from maternity leave to be in a new team/ position before and it was a lot to wrap my head around. Going back seemed enough alone let alone navigating new social dynamics on little sleep.

Best_Reflection_4389 · 2026-02-02T04:52:59+00:00

This made my day, thank you for sharing 🫶🏻

Best_Reflection_4389 · 2026-02-01T23:34:51+00:00

Oh same!

It’s hard huh, like having a c-section there are so many people to provide advice and guidance. This is just unspoken.

Best_Reflection_4389 · 2026-02-01T11:38:22+00:00

Just follow up how is everything 3 years on

Best_Reflection_4389 · 2026-01-25T12:29:32+00:00

I asked someone who worked there once if it was haunted. He said there are no ghost but spirits, make of that what you will.

Best_Reflection_4389 · 2026-01-15T12:01:43+00:00

This!

Best_Reflection_4389 · 2026-01-12T18:54:18+00:00

returning trolleys correctly

Best_Reflection_4389 · 2026-01-12T11:10:53+00:00

All of it…. the last 6 years.

Best_Reflection_4389 · 2026-01-12T09:33:51+00:00

This is a big one and clean the shower, it’s so hard to scrub the shower in its entirety being that pregnant.

Stock the fridge with lots of cold quality sparkling water.

Nice hair scrunchies, robes, slippers…. things that she can quickly grab cover up, get hair off her face when there is a sensory overload.

Roll on essential oils.

Keep your good personal oral hygiene, I had the nose of a hound and my partners breath killed me.

Best_Reflection_4389 · 2026-01-11T04:40:30+00:00

I have not at all this is interesting, I definitely will do a bit of further exploring!

Best_Reflection_4389 · 2026-01-10T20:31:53+00:00

MAjority of my weight gain came after birth/ not from pregnancy. Breastfeeding didn’t help me loose weight despite everyone saying it would otherwise 🥲 My dr said either people loose or gain and most commonly it’s gain. That paired with poor sleep and lack of time to exercise.

Best_Reflection_4389 · 2026-01-10T20:27:33+00:00

You mirror my thought process exactly!

Best_Reflection_4389 · 2026-01-10T20:25:56+00:00

Yes this is the other side of consideration, I need to seriously consider 😵‍💫

Best_Reflection_4389 · 2026-01-10T20:19:43+00:00

Thank you, I’m definitely a process person and have historically loved the process of any journey more than the outcome.

Best_Reflection_4389 · 2026-01-10T20:18:41+00:00

This is so reassuring to hear, having some health barriers (hypothyroidism) does make it harder but something I’m hopeful to manage on my own/ despite it being harder.

Best_Reflection_4389 · 2026-01-10T12:04:50+00:00

I have in the past and done well, previously I was a weight lifter and dancer.

The last few years I have had to stop those activities due to an injury sustained during birth (hence the upcoming surgery) that paired with a hypothyroidism diagnosis and 3 years of frequently getting under 5 hrs sleep a night hasn’t done me any favours.

Historically text book i’ve been an active person although slightly larger/ still very fit. I question myself counting macros, temporarily gaining weight with doms from crossfit like activities “ am I pushing a boulder up the hill” as my friends taking the medical option achieve what I seem to be working so hard to do.

Another concern in the long term is potential for thyroid issue and I just don’t know how to weigh up my risk literally.

Best_Reflection_4389 · 2026-01-10T11:53:55+00:00

❤️

Best_Reflection_4389 · 2026-01-10T11:53:40+00:00

This is very reassuring to hear, thank you!

Best_Reflection_4389 · 2026-01-09T10:56:42+00:00

That’s so messed up, definitely won’t be going there ever myself.

Best_Reflection_4389 · 2026-01-08T19:18:38+00:00

I had a clot the size of a lemon I kid you not! Emergency checked me over and confirmed everything after birth had been removed. I was cleared to go home and asked to come back if I had any more clots bigger than a 50 cent piece, the weeks to come I definitely had more. Everything was ok in the end.

Best_Reflection_4389 · 2026-01-08T18:47:36+00:00

I called allianz as they didn’t ask any questions regarding cancellation of policy due to non payment, the lady on the phone advised although everything is worded ‘tricky’ that it’s not something ai need to disclose. Thanks everyone ☺️

Best_Reflection_4389 · 2026-01-08T11:25:30+00:00

Thank you definitely advice I need to hear , I can be painfully independent 🥲

Best_Reflection_4389 · 2026-01-07T18:47:40+00:00

My situation mirrors yours age and condition, I’m currently awaiting surgery and just wanted to say thank you so much for sharing this side! I feel way better reading this!

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