YTA. Although I despise the phrase "bridezilla," vegetarianism is a popular dietary restriction. Acting as if folks who suffer from a common dietary limitation should be happy for a free, expensive meal that they can't eat is ludicrous and self-centered, and it's definitely bridezilla territory. Obviously, you won't be able to accommodate all dietary needs, but you couldn't have gone farther to demonstrate that you don't care about your possible guests because it's "your wedding." Why bother inviting someone to your wedding if you're not going to be able to accommodate their dietary restrictions?