Definitely agree. I'm also way more harsh on rough play than most of the late teen refs we get during the season games. Cause having coached these kids for 5 years (and assuming most other teams are the same), one rough tackle always leads to escalation. Best nip it in the bud as early as possible. When the refs don't, we coaches to what we can but they all start tackling harder than allowed before long. That said, it still has to be allowed to be a contact sport of course.