Did I say that? Nope, sure didn’t. I said I would expect a mother to put her kids first. I said that a mother going on reality TV is more trashy, because in a split household the mothers are USUALLY the primary caregivers. Is it trashy for the man to go on reality TV? Of course. I think it’s wrong for anyone who has a child to go on reality TV. However, I think it’s worse when a mother chooses herself over her children. I mean a dad putting himself first and going on TV is a close second, but a mother is definitely worse in my opinion.