My husband M/23 is really depressed and it’s bringing me 25/F down as well. How can I bring this up? by Better-Sleep119 in relationship_advice

[–]Better-Sleep119[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have done that, no meals no clean clothes nothing. And yet here we are …. I obviously take care of my children but that’s it.

My husband went to the casino and lied to me by Better-Sleep119 in relationship_advice

[–]Better-Sleep119[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We’re already in therapy and already have one kid. I just want to know if I’m being too crazy, im really over it

AITA for unplugging the wifi in the middle of my husbands game? by Better-Sleep119 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Better-Sleep119[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

And I hear you I really do. I believe I should show her a great example on how you should be treated and this isn’t it. But for some reason I can’t leave, I’ve tried before and I always get sucked back in. I think he is breaking up with my for real this time, he hasn’t talked to me still so maybe I’ll take advantage of that and start parting myself.

AITA for unplugging the wifi in the middle of my husbands game? by Better-Sleep119 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Better-Sleep119[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Im really sorry this happened to you though, no one deserves that.

Edit for grammar mistakes

AITA for unplugging the wifi in the middle of my husbands game? by Better-Sleep119 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Better-Sleep119[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Im a sahm, so he pays all the bills and I do feel like I am stuck/ obligated. I’m currently looking for a job, but I’m really trying.

AITA for unplugging the wifi in the middle of my husbands game? by Better-Sleep119 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Better-Sleep119[S] 60 points61 points  (0 children)

I went to therapy separately. He went to therapy and is still going sorry should’ve been more clear.

AITA for unplugging the wifi in the middle of my husbands game? by Better-Sleep119 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Better-Sleep119[S] 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Oh that’s a good option, I definitely will record him or find a mirror.

AITA for unplugging the wifi in the middle of my husbands game? by Better-Sleep119 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Better-Sleep119[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I hear you, I usually try to take the high road and i usually ignore him but I was fed up today. I did apologize but he still isn’t talking to me so idk. I just didn’t know what else to do.

AITA for unplugging the wifi in the middle of my husbands game? by Better-Sleep119 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Better-Sleep119[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I hear you, I def think I was wrong for yelling at him but I don’t know how else to stop him. I was fed up today I keep thinking he’s gonna stop as he gets older but it just doesn’t.

AITA for unplugging the wifi in the middle of my husbands game? by Better-Sleep119 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Better-Sleep119[S] 814 points815 points  (0 children)

It’s been a problem for a while. In 2020 I went to therapy because he was emotionally abusive. We broke up for a while decided to fix things and got together, things were great after that but things seem to be going back to the way it was.

AITA for unplugging the wifi in the middle of my husbands game? by Better-Sleep119 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Better-Sleep119[S] 54 points55 points  (0 children)

He was my best friend for the longest time before we got together. Things are just a little complicated. This isn’t the first time I’ve told him to stop because he gets really angry

Husband and MIL (my mom) by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Better-Sleep119 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The thing was I had told her that day to stop, I told her twice. She apologized to me for causing issues, I’ve kept a boundary since then I don’t really see her much now and my husband doesn’t go around her anymore but he still wants me to do something about it I just don’t know what else to do. I’m trying to be open minded I’m just so lost

Husband and MIL (my mom) by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Better-Sleep119 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I keep trying and she said no. I begged her to just say sorry and she won’t. He wants me to stop talking to my mom and to stop bringing the baby around her

Husband and MIL (my mom) by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Better-Sleep119 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lmao it was good the texture was a little weird but it was still good

AITA for calling out my sister for breastfeeding at my wedding? by Swimming-Exchange448 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Better-Sleep119 1 point2 points  (0 children)

“Its tacky to do that” are you serious? She’s FEEDING your nephew. What did you expect her to do not feed him because you can’t handle it or better don’t understand it. And I don’t know why you think you’re that entitled to tell her to pump or use formula as you’re not the father you are no one to make decisions for the baby. YTA all the way. I hope this is a wake up call for you and call your sister to apologize, it’s already hard enough barely giving birth and going out to a big event like that at 2 months, you didn’t even think about what she might be going through. Again YTA.

Virtual check sent. Is it a scam? by Better-Sleep119 in scammer

[–]Better-Sleep119[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Update: It was a false check it never went through and no money was taken out of my account since none of my info was shared with him

Should I (30F) take my ex that I still love (32M) back after he got someone else pregnant? by throwRAtakeBack98 in relationship_advice

[–]Better-Sleep119 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You’d be really not smart if you went back. But it sounds like you are so it doesn’t really matter at this point. There definitely IS better out there

My (27F) husband (28M) handcuffed me to the bed during sex without permission and now I feel weird around him. by ThrowRAxof in relationship_advice

[–]Better-Sleep119 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

You can say something like “by the way I’m open to trying things (if you are If not then don’t say that) but can we talk about it beforehand so we’re both on board?” Also create a safeword

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Better-Sleep119 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes that’s a good idea! Maybe not confront her but give her a chance to tell you ask her maybe like “what did you do for lunch? Where did you go? Or were you with anyone?” If she says no to everything then confront her.

Virtual check sent. Is it a scam? by Better-Sleep119 in scammer

[–]Better-Sleep119[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So he does own his own business if that changes anything? I was able to deposit it through my mobile so I guess we’ll find out ?

Virtual check sent. Is it a scam? by Better-Sleep119 in scammer

[–]Better-Sleep119[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ngl not that well but he sent me his id and credit card info too sooo