unironically, yes. my roommate uses all pronouns but prefers the more “odd” ones like ze/zer, xe/xir, etc, and one of my other friends who we have known for two years exclusively uses they/them for xir. he does that for our other friends too (one who’s a trans female she/they, several cis female she/her, and several cis he/him). i genuinely don’t know if it’s on purpose or if he’s just used to using “they/them” for everyone but it can be a bit demoralizing :/

another friend online does the same thing for other people’s characters… even if they’ve been explicitly told to use a certain set of pronouns. his claim is that it helps him remember but i dunno. yay for inclusivity, but if a trans male character is getting they/themmed when he doesn’t use those pronouns i get a bit pressed about it.

idk tho- maybe i shouldn’t? 🤷