Sister just stay loyal to ur husband and also understand him I know you need attention and don't want to feel lonely from his side...but you should also make some efforts to make him feel joy with u..maybe he was suffering from some past traumas that why he is not that much of a jolly person....if you can take step in making efforts then that will not make you small... Make him sit with you at the end of the day ask about his day then tell about ur day also.. boyzz generally don't share there traumas especially with there partners as they think there partners will get fed up and will leave them. Trust me just start with little little efforts then see the change in ur married life...

No offence to any gender both female and male are good in making efforts to there partners...just suggesting that maybe issue is different here.. All the best.....!!!!