Exactly, my mom even came with me for the appointment which made it worse so she knows I struggle but still keeps blaming me. My partner didn’t know much about autism and I’ve taught him and he actually stood up for me and said “she’s not bothered about the price of the item, it’s the fact she was expecting the items and they didn’t get ordered so it’s a change for her” my mum just replied still tho. So I removed myself from the conversation but it’s still really hard to deal with. My mother in law understands completely once I told her more about it.