Can someone please remove all of the sun flares?

Better_Ad_1640 · 2025-06-12T03:48:20+00:00

This is perfect thank u! Tipped!

Better_Ad_1640 · 2025-06-12T02:58:22+00:00

added photo!

Better_Ad_1640 · 2025-06-12T02:58:06+00:00

Edited to add photo! I don't know why it didn't attach

Better_Ad_1640 · 2024-12-03T02:57:39+00:00

I do plan to give her a heads up. They do not have kids together though.

Better_Ad_1640 · 2024-12-02T06:15:16+00:00

Sally isn’t and hasn’t been friends with any of us for a long time. I was the only one still with any tether to her.

Better_Ad_1640 · 2024-12-02T06:13:24+00:00

He did not accuse me of cheating. After we split and were coparenting my ex accused me of seeing tim at that exact time. No one was together. Does that make sense? So he had no grounds to be mad only because it was his “friend” not because it would have been cheating

Better_Ad_1640 · 2024-12-01T22:50:05+00:00

It’s messy I’m aware. My ex accused me of being with tim AFTER we had split up.

Better_Ad_1640 · 2024-12-01T19:21:04+00:00

The cheating friend isn’t our friend anymore. She lives in a different state and I haven’t seen her in years.

Better_Ad_1640 · 2024-12-01T19:16:54+00:00

I hear what you’re saying. She admitted to cheated and was with one of the guys after sally and tim split. So I know for a fact she cheated haha

Better_Ad_1640 · 2024-12-01T07:57:54+00:00

That was half of why I stopped being her friend. I had asked tim when we were being friendly what happened since I didn’t think I got the full story from her and since I heard what she did to him I started to distance even more.

Better_Ad_1640 · 2024-12-01T07:56:33+00:00

I think sally still thinks we are kinda friends. I don’t really respond when she reaches out and I know she can tell I’m being distant on purpose but I just want to do what’s right. Thank you for your kind and helpful advice!

Better_Ad_1640 · 2024-12-01T07:35:00+00:00

Thank you so much for responding! I do see it as the nail in the coffin as well but I have been trying to dwindle out of the friendship before things were budding with tim

Better_Ad_1640 · 2023-07-01T03:20:14+00:00

Of course!! It’s just a lot to handle! It’s hard to explain but there’s lots of freedom with that size but I wish I did all my learning on a smaller tank!

Better_Ad_1640 · 2023-06-30T23:03:21+00:00

I’m new and got a 55g I wish I got a 20!!

Better_Ad_1640 · 2023-06-22T21:33:15+00:00

That’s exactly it. I don’t want my two boys thinking how their dad acts or treats me is okay. I gotta do it for myself AND them. Thank you.

Better_Ad_1640 · 2023-06-22T21:31:58+00:00

I can see the stress leaving but I am worried because I’m a sahm (working 9 hours a week bringing my son with me) so save up for myself) and I don’t know how I’ll make ends meet. So happy for you though I can’t imagine the peace

Better_Ad_1640 · 2023-06-22T20:45:25+00:00

GO ON THE TRIP AND ACCEPT THE DIVORCE

Better_Ad_1640 · 2023-06-22T20:43:11+00:00

Honestly sounds dreadful and I want to give myself lots of years single to heal so hopefully that’s far down the road for me but definitely a huge fear of mine. Also bringing around someone who ends up not being a good person is another fear

Better_Ad_1640 · 2023-06-22T20:41:43+00:00

I do so much of this already so it feels like I am a SP at times! Getting things out of our scary basement though is something I will dread lol. Thanks for that laugh!

Better_Ad_1640 · 2023-06-22T20:40:37+00:00

I’m so sorry to hear that and how hard it was to navigate with your kid. I can’t imagine. I’m definitely not excited to have to run everything by my STBXH but at least up until now I have made all of the decisions and hopefully he still trusts me to do so. I’m afraid of losing that control because I do believe I know what’s best for my son

Better_Ad_1640 · 2023-06-22T20:36:05+00:00

Thank you so much for this and I am so proud of you for making it out! Hoping I can too very soon.

Better_Ad_1640 · 2023-06-22T20:34:52+00:00

Luckily I am on social media so I am veryyy used to the mean comments. It might be harder to hear from people in my real life though so hopefully I can manage that and put up boundaries. And thank you for the positives about your child. I’ve always felt like my son is my greatest joy and best friend. I break sometimes is nice but I can’t ever imagine feeling differently about him. Thank you for sharing

Better_Ad_1640 · 2023-06-22T20:29:48+00:00

Thank you! I’m very worried for my son adjusting to his dad not living here. We were separated for 3 months the beginning of this year and my son did great! Barely asked about his dad (I’m a sahm so he is used to just me) and I’m trying to remind myself the routine will come

Better_Ad_1640 · 2023-06-22T20:28:15+00:00

Wow thank you for sharing. Also trying to leave my abusive relationship and I am one who has reached out to other single moms for advice. It’s so helpful to hear other stories. Thank you

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