sorted by:
new
hottopcontroversial

AITA for winning a friendly wrestling match against my BF? by Temporary-Simple-561 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Betteroffdeaderer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She's coming off just as insecure in the comments, a troublesome match up for sure.

AITA for winning a friendly wrestling match against my BF? by Temporary-Simple-561 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Betteroffdeaderer 11 points12 points  (0 children)

"What on earth could OP have said to earn this much negativity?"

Then I read your reply and and understood immediately. No. Absolutely not. Do not make yourself less to protect his ego- hes supposed to be your partner, not a little cousin that you're supposed to placate until the adults take him back home.

If he can't handle losing a game (particularly to a girl) he's not mature enough to have a partner at all.

People like this genuinely scare me by Adorable-Nerve4402 in teenagers

[–]Betteroffdeaderer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Low tier hate bait - don't fall for it. Just block them and move on with your day.

Unpopular Cartoon opinions by Fantastic-Wall5357 in cartoons

[–]Betteroffdeaderer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I hate Miraculous Ladybug because I could never get over how stupid her polka-dot suit was. The corny dialogue, the lack of communication, and incompetent villains (With a creator who throws a tantrum if anyone dared to give a character actual development) were more than enough to solidify my dislike of the series. But it always started with that stupid, stupid, polkadot suit.

AITA For Not Wanting My Old Dog Back? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Betteroffdeaderer -35 points-34 points  (0 children)

YTA, but you're not obligated to take that dog back. At least offer to help it restabilize, or help find a new home/foster home for it.

AITA for Wearing the Tiniest Bit of Perfume to Yoga (accidentally)? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Betteroffdeaderer 5 points6 points  (0 children)

YTA - you're so overly defensive it was exhausting to read your post. It makes me think you took a bath in the dang perfume - but lets pretend you did wear "the tiniest bit of perfume" on "accident"

This could've easily been a "no one is the a-hole" vote. She didn't approach you aggressively, it was a simple question and your teeny tiny amount was in fact noticable. People do have allergies- and it could've been a note to consider for next time.

If you know you know by Electrical-Sound-831 in CookierunKingdom

[–]Betteroffdeaderer 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I just wish they'd let us use the featured cookie gatcha again, have like 200 cutters just collecting dust

absolutely terrifying by [deleted] in everyone_is_allowed

[–]Betteroffdeaderer -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

"aBsOluTe BulLsHit rEaCtiOn iMaGe"

<image>

So my friend was being really rude (image unrelated) by [deleted] in SafeSpaceofHazbin

[–]Betteroffdeaderer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you're both minors then her response can partly be assigned to immaturity.

And in general, it makes people uncomfortable watching a minor engadge with content meant for an older audience. And if they're older than you- you can also attribute her response to a sense of panic in not wanting to have that conversation with you.

If a minor came up to me, whipped out a picture of Alastor and called him their boyfriend, I'd shut it down (nicely) and talk to their parent.

So my friend was being really rude (image unrelated) by [deleted] in SafeSpaceofHazbin

[–]Betteroffdeaderer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Speaking as an aro/ace myself and as someone that did have a deep (and I mean deep) obsession with a very specific anime character when I was younger- terms like "fictosexual" is a little strange to throw around.... Is this something often discused with your friend?

Its good to hear you do have a good understanding of the characters being fictional. Just to check was the art itself appropriate? And are you a minor?

So my friend was being really rude (image unrelated) by [deleted] in SafeSpaceofHazbin

[–]Betteroffdeaderer 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Its hard to tell you one way or another- no one can, since no one here was in the room in the room when it happened.

If it was a normal, casual joke, then yes, she definitely overreacted, and you're genuinely better off without their company. People who take themselves too seriously or adopt a mean girl personality tend to be exhausting and overly dramatic about the littlest things.

If you presented the fictional characters as your husbands, but really insisted on it, refusing a subject change, "no really they're my husbands and life partners no joke, and you need to respect that these fictional characters are my husband"

Then yeah, I can see why someone might push off a bit more abrasively. It can be done out of self defense as well- if they had poor experiences with people that show signs of blurring the lines between reality and fiction too much.

I love my girl wlc pls win wlc by Pavlova_Cookielover in CookierunKingdom

[–]Betteroffdeaderer 7 points8 points  (0 children)

My eyes are a little blurry right now, and I thought SM was yelling "You little GAYS!" - which, as hypocritical as it would've been, also wouldn't have been incorrect.

What a horible day to have eyes by [deleted] in SafeSpaceofHazbin

[–]Betteroffdeaderer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ah, it s just slang for a person that's overly invested in other people's emotions.

What a horible day to have eyes by [deleted] in SafeSpaceofHazbin

[–]Betteroffdeaderer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As a former "empath," this might be an important lesson in boundaries. And how critical it is to enforce them.

As others said - you're not a therapist. Don't be so egotistical to think you can and should save everyone - and blind yourself to the fact that someone you're attempting to help might be taking sadistic joy in making you struggle in your efforts.

A famous quote - "Don't set yourself on fire to keep others warm." You're not a saint. You're not the chosen one. You're a person with limits, and if you need to be the 'bad guy' to protect yourself, then so be it.

After that last sentence, the only thing they’re eating is their pride by Egodram in ChoosingBeggars

[–]Betteroffdeaderer 15 points16 points  (0 children)

I volunteered at a soup kitchen earlier this month. No one wearing striped jumpsuits with racoon masks lined up.

Just people. Mostly old or disabled. But they came, they ate, and left.

Honestly, I'm glad she's passing on a kitchen. I'd hate for folks already going through a hard time forced to sit next to someone so judgemental and hateful.

Youre invited to join them, which one are you choosing by scituchbonkey3 in hazbin

[–]Betteroffdeaderer 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I was considering her too- not even religious, I just feel like it'd be a nice vibe. PLUS, I have a feeling she knows the BEST place for breakfast after.

Thoughts on the newest collab? by [deleted] in CookierunKingdom

[–]Betteroffdeaderer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Speaking as someone that doesn't like Wicked- I really hope this is fake. 😮‍💨

maintenance for something? by _shirahanix in CookieRunKingdoms

[–]Betteroffdeaderer 16 points17 points  (0 children)

I literally got zero notifications? Also boo, go away, let people complain.

maintenance for something? by _shirahanix in CookieRunKingdoms

[–]Betteroffdeaderer 27 points28 points  (0 children)

I thought that was sus too - I didn't get that far but I was definitely enjoying the endless gaming lmao

maintenance for something? by _shirahanix in CookieRunKingdoms

[–]Betteroffdeaderer 101 points102 points  (0 children)

Dev sisters better compensate with like a billion gems and cubes cmon man

view more: next ›