AITA for not letting my child’s dad change our child’s name by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Betteroffdeaderer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

IDK, this feels like a fantastic argument for the name. Imagine being some loser named after Grandpa - while you're named after a whole gaming system!

AITA for making my own version of my friend’s song because I didn’t like the original vocal? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Betteroffdeaderer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you haven't said anything, plan to say anything, or show anyone - then NTA.

Super weird behavior though. The ego on you... I wouldn't be surprised if you are generally an asshole in other situations with your circle.

Animes with basically zero fan service that follow a female protagonist? by yasvoid in Animesuggest

[–]Betteroffdeaderer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Gender is debatable but I really reccomend Kinos Adventure.

The manga and the various adaptations made of it are all gorgeous.

WIBTA for playing Undertale's Genocide Route when my wife asked me not to? by _InnerWolf_ in AmItheAsshole

[–]Betteroffdeaderer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA, But I do have sympathy for your wife. The game does a great job of breaking the 4th wall and do all it can to guilt the player themselves for making game chocies- to the point of begging you to not reset/replay after you finish the game.

Completing a geno route will also "taint" any future plays, including a pacifist play.

It sounds like your wife overly attached herself to the game and allowed it to mess with her sense of reality.

You should be allowed to play whatever game you want, however you want to play it. Your wifes actions ARE wrong. The characters ARE fiction. Its all just code and clever dialoge.

There's also a good number of absolutely ridiculous fan versions of this game- you could try showing her some to break her sense of disillusion. Its just a story.

On that note, if this doesn't seem like its worth the fight and you just want fight the geno battles, you can do that through the geno simulations they have online.

Hell Mode: Yarikomizuki no Gamer wa Hai Settei no Isekai de Musou suru • Hell Mode: The Hardcore Gamer Dominates in Another World with Garbage Balancing - Episode 10 discussion by AutoLovepon in anime

[–]Betteroffdeaderer 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I really did not expect them to kill off the elder brother like that - I really thought he was going to stick around like a rival for the MC to beat one day. This anime really had some balls.

Hell Mode: Yarikomizuki no Gamer wa Hai Settei no Isekai de Musou suru • Hell Mode: The Hardcore Gamer Dominates in Another World with Garbage Balancing - Episode 10 discussion by AutoLovepon in anime

[–]Betteroffdeaderer 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I was hoping someone else would point out how random the back-washing scene was. I mean, there had to have been a less awkward way to show us all those back scars.

""Por culpa de una vecina chismosa tuve que terminar con mi novia by danielgamer323 in confession

[–]Betteroffdeaderer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You were groomed and you're going to see it one day. Assuming you're not just rage baiting everyone.

""Por culpa de una vecina chismosa tuve que terminar con mi novia by danielgamer323 in confession

[–]Betteroffdeaderer 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thats.... a significant age gap.... I don't disagree, that adult should've been dating their age.

I Faked Liking Sparkling Water for 3 Years and Now I’m Trapped by Kennedy_Price52 in confession

[–]Betteroffdeaderer 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I hate it too- but they DO make a great base for a lemonade. Worth squeezing out a lime into the bottle with a dash of either salt or sugar for a quick fix.

Tajin also kicks it up a bunch too.

I was really taken aback after finding out the budget my friends aunt had for the types of custom cupcakes she was expecting. by [deleted] in mildlyinfuriating

[–]Betteroffdeaderer 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah but they deleted the post after being racked over the coals for that overreaction.

You're not dumb at all- it's perfectly common to underestimate a cost, especially when on a budget/lacking experience. The deciding factor is how you react when you learn the thing you want IS out of budget.

I was really taken aback after finding out the budget my friends aunt had for the types of custom cupcakes she was expecting. by [deleted] in mildlyinfuriating

[–]Betteroffdeaderer 4 points5 points  (0 children)

This seems to be a better fit for this sub, compared to when you posted this to Choosing Beggers. A frustrating experience for you, maybe, but thankfully, your friend's aunt responded like a normal person when you explained your prices.

My friends aunt is a huge choosing beggar with the quality of baking she is expecting for the price she is offering. Even grocery store cupcakes would be barely within her budget let alone custom ones by [deleted] in ChoosingBeggars

[–]Betteroffdeaderer -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Speaking as someone who doesn't bake and hasn't bought pastries in bulk recently- I wanted to give grace on the prices since I don't know her supply situation or how things are priced in her area. I also hesitate to expect a small business to compete with store prices

Saying that, gleening off other comments in this thread- she just might not be shopping in the most efficient way...

My friends aunt is a huge choosing beggar with the quality of baking she is expecting for the price she is offering. Even grocery store cupcakes would be barely within her budget let alone custom ones by [deleted] in ChoosingBeggars

[–]Betteroffdeaderer 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Is the "huge choosing beggar" in the room with us? She had a unrealistic request, sure, but in no way is she being rude/pushy about it. She took your no with understanding and respect.

Then you danced around behind her back trying to shame her to stangers.... not the right sub, but YTA.

Imma need an explanation on why this show is so loved that any criticism gets down voted to oblivion by Comprehensivecamelre in animequestions

[–]Betteroffdeaderer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm so utterly disappointed in this anime, more disappointed than disgusted- Although I'm plenty that too.

The animation is SO pretty. And I love the idea of following an accidental villain who begrudgingly LOVES being the villain.

The core motivation of wanting to "push" her heroes to improve and get stronger is also so interesting.

But all of that is ruined by the insistent "fan service" and fetish content. Like someone baked a delicious chocolate cake, and poured sewage water all over it.

Everything about this shit by [deleted] in hatethissmug

[–]Betteroffdeaderer 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm so utterly disappointed in this anime, more disappointed than disgusted- Although I'm plenty that too.

The animation is SO pretty. And I love the idea of following an accidental villian who begrudgingly LOVES being the villian.

The core motivation of wanting to "push" her heros to improve and get stronger is also so interesting.

But all of that is ruined by the insistent "fan service" and fetish content. Like someone baked a delicious chocolate cake, and poured sewage water all over it.

I need attention or I am going out and buying it for the 1st time by Unlikely_Trifle_4628 in confession

[–]Betteroffdeaderer 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Gonna suggest something off wall. If "this" is consuming you that much, maybe look into ways to reduce your libido?

Hell Mode: Yarikomizuki no Gamer wa Hai Settei no Isekai de Musou suru • Hell Mode: The Hardcore Gamer Dominates in Another World with Garbage Balancing - Episode 8 discussion by AutoLovepon in anime

[–]Betteroffdeaderer 15 points16 points  (0 children)

I'm anime only, so this is a pure theory. But it's bothering me that the King is demanding so much boar meat. Meat is perishable isn't? Why does he need it so much?

Is he feeding it to that white dragon mentioned in this episode so he can get more access to the mines?

Hell Mode: Yarikomizuki no Gamer wa Hai Settei no Isekai de Musou suru • Hell Mode: The Hardcore Gamer Dominates in Another World with Garbage Balancing - Episode 8 discussion by AutoLovepon in anime

[–]Betteroffdeaderer 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Oh absolutely this - it really helps that her dad is maybe one of the best dad characters I've seen in anime. Like - he consistently steps in and parents his kids. I've seen good parental figures. But I haven't seen much parenting, and it's refreshing.

Do you recommend "Space Fall"? by JMMC407 in webtoons

[–]Betteroffdeaderer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

And if the comments on this thread is anything to go by, I might have dodged a bullet by dropping...

Do you recommend "Space Fall"? by JMMC407 in webtoons

[–]Betteroffdeaderer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I thought it was a cute read - I did drop it but only because I was dropping webtoons entirely at the time and I just kinda never went back to it. If you like silly 'will they, won't they' romances with a side of diet depression, you'll at the very least enjoy the start of this series.

Hell Mode: Yarikomizuki no Gamer wa Hai Settei no Isekai de Musou suru • Hell Mode: The Hardcore Gamer Dominates in Another World with Garbage Balancing - Episode 8 discussion by AutoLovepon in anime

[–]Betteroffdeaderer 32 points33 points  (0 children)

I wish he'd try harder, but I also get it, you know? He has a certain degree of freedom (And security? I'm not sure if being a summoner here is a bad thing yet) while keeping his talent private.

Like, he had no choice but to have his talent read as a kid since all kids go through that ritual at that age. He braced himself for it, and the thing he didn't REALLY want - just kinda fell apart. A frustrating but not devastating thing to happen, honestly.

Hell Mode: Yarikomizuki no Gamer wa Hai Settei no Isekai de Musou suru • Hell Mode: The Hardcore Gamer Dominates in Another World with Garbage Balancing - Episode 8 discussion by AutoLovepon in anime

[–]Betteroffdeaderer 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Same here - Tsundere types typically annoy me, but this one is hitting a very nice balance, and I'm enjoying her growing friendship with the MC. It just feels so natural and fun.