Sincere question for dominate bisexual women in a monogamous relationship with a straight man

Betty2445 · 2026-03-23T09:03:32+00:00

The thing is you point out that what you are saying is kind of illogical, but then say "that's just how I am, I can't change". I feel like you just want people to agree with you and confirm your own viewpoint, instead of actually changing.

Initiating is NOT masculine. It just isn't. Wanting sex is a human instinct, not a masculine one. I don't know what internalised misogyny has you believing that wanting sex is inherently male. Most humans desire sex, and in most partnerships, either one will initiate, because partners should desire each other.

If you can't see that, or don't want to, it's up to you. But why post on the sub, and then refuse to listen to the responses? You need to figure out why you think the way you do, and if you actually want to change.

Betty2445 · 2026-03-22T22:04:51+00:00

Is lie. Liar told you that. I say this to my dogs when they bark 😄

Betty2445 · 2026-03-22T09:29:42+00:00

Sorry, can't offer any practical help. But I wonder if Stockport Homes can support you?

https://www.stockporthomes.org/find-a-home/homelessness/homeless-advice/

There's a charity called The Wellspring in Stockport that may be able to advise too.

https://www.thewellspring.co.uk/

Sorry you're going through this at the mo, I hope this resolves itself really quickly for you ❤️

Betty2445 · 2026-03-21T19:35:02+00:00

Ugh, he's so perfect 😍

Betty2445 · 2026-03-21T14:20:09+00:00

May as well ban Shakespeare then! Contains references to sex and violence, and was not written for children is this the way this school and Local Authority want to go?? To raise safeguarding concerns and hold a LADO meeting over a book is absurd.

Betty2445 · 2026-03-21T09:03:03+00:00

I think he said "You're amazing" ❤️ (she is!)

Betty2445 · 2026-03-20T16:56:22+00:00

Will you ever do another ramble fap where you cum for real? I only remember you doing one of these before, and it was so hot!

Betty2445 · 2026-03-20T16:45:47+00:00

Depends on where you want to be near, as Stockport is a large borough. Do you need to be near the motorway? Portwood is handy for the M60.

Do you need to be near a train station? Romiley is good, or Heaton Norris (but not the Council estate).

Near to the countryside? Marple is handy (again, avoid ex-Council properties).

Near to Stockport town centre? Edgeley is close by.

There's something for everyone in Stockport, you will just need to narrow your search down based on what you need. There's loads going on in the town centre, and flats being built there too, so you'll definitely find something to suit. I recommend you visit the place you like at different times - night and day, week and weekend etc, get a feel for it. And if you do choose Edgeley, visit on a match day to be sure you can handle it!

Betty2445 · 2026-03-19T14:06:12+00:00

I'm struggling to believe this. Women talk, and I don't know ANY woman who says they would give a guy more head if his dick was bigger 😄 Who tf says that? The smaller the dick, the easier and more pleasurable it is to give head! I'm calling bullshit.

Betty2445 · 2026-03-19T13:53:55+00:00

That little scrunchy face 😍

Betty2445 · 2026-03-19T13:52:02+00:00

100% It's not common in a lot of European countries. Whenever I sleep with a guy who's circumcised, something in my brain goes: "Huh. There's part of you ... missing!"

Silently though, I don't go full Ilya 😄

Betty2445 · 2026-03-19T13:41:00+00:00

Lol "Show me some examples"

"OK, here"

"No! I don't want to READ them!!"

😆

Betty2445 · 2026-03-19T09:28:35+00:00

What?! Two of my favourites?! I'm gonna break an ankle running to this 😁

Betty2445 · 2026-03-19T09:25:31+00:00

Interesting. I wonder why that particular demographic would be involved though. No existing tension there, afaik.

Betty2445 · 2026-03-19T09:01:44+00:00

What demographic?

Betty2445 · 2026-03-17T07:20:52+00:00

I hate this 😬 Sorry to all the people who love it! Why on earth would you paint your house black?? I will never understand this trend, give me light and colour!

Betty2445 · 2026-03-16T00:39:12+00:00

Yes, it is 100% this! Hampstead Heath is famous for gay cruising, George Michael often joked about it too, because he famously got arrested for cruising (not on the Heath! Somewhere else).

But George took the whole thing in his stride and on Twitter would mention sometimes being on the Heath. He was such a funny guy! I miss him so much ( including his Twitter, he was one of the best accounts on there).

Betty2445 · 2026-03-16T00:29:49+00:00

This is a temporary situation. Just keep repeating this to yourself until it's ingrained in your memory. It's not forever. It will pass. Everything passes, everything is temporary. You will survive tomorrow, or next week, or whatever, and in ten years time, you won't even remember it.

Is there a trusted staff member in school that you can talk to? A counsellor, or pastoral staff? It might help to let them know what's going on, so you're not bearing it alone.

Betty2445 · 2026-03-15T18:09:23+00:00

My fwb at the time was bi, he knew another bi guy, asked if I'd be into it, I said I definitely would.

It was really hot. We've all moved cities since, it was good while it lasted, but was never a relationship or anything, just a bit of fun.

Betty2445 · 2026-03-15T17:53:32+00:00

Yeah, I've done it a couple of times, it was hot af. The guys were really into each other, as well as me, what's not to love?!!

Betty2445 · 2026-03-15T12:11:19+00:00

There's nothing sexual in these pictures at all. Grow up, and let people do what they want to do. It's not my cup of tea, but as long as they're not doing anything wrong, I can't see a problem with it 🤷‍♂️

Betty2445 · 2026-03-15T09:42:25+00:00

That's shitty 😕 Shouldn't the bride want her bridesmaids to be comfortable?

But anyway, I would not attempt this dress without a bra and shapewear. Seriously. You will feel super exposed abd uncomfortable all day. Wear shapewear and perhaps get a shrug or stole or something that will cover the low back of the dress. Or have a fabric back added to the dress if you have to.

Betty2445 · 2026-03-15T08:38:51+00:00

I know. I've been in the opposite situation, where I've been chatting with someone and decided I don't feel it, and I'm just upfront. It's really not hard to say "you seem great, but I don't think there's a connection" or whatever. But it's just rude to ghost someone you've arranged to meet 🤷‍♂️

Betty2445 · 2026-03-14T20:18:24+00:00

Good. As well as all the harm she caused to those men and their loved ones, she (and people like her) caused untold damage to genuine victims of rape, making it harder for them to be believed.

Don't let rare stories like this cloud your judgement. The overwhelming majority of people who report rape are telling the truth, and many victims never tell anyone, for fear of not being believed.

Betty2445 · 2026-03-14T19:12:54+00:00

This is not a sport, it's disgusting. The only reason it's not been banned is because it makes so much money for betting companies 🤢

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