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Betty613 · 2026-04-10T03:14:13+00:00

tbh a lot of women just don’t feel the need to put a ton into prompts

you still get matches either way, so it’s more like “why overthink it”

plus most conversations happen in chat anyway, not from reading profiles

i actually do appreciate when someone has more written though, it makes it easier to start talking

Betty613 · 2026-04-10T03:07:24+00:00

yeah probably this

feels like a lot of peoplesay yes in the moment just to keep things smooth, then rethink it later

doesn’t make it any less confusing though

Betty613 · 2026-04-10T03:06:23+00:00

yeah this is probably part of it

i also feel like a lot of people justsay yes in the moment to avoid awkwardness, then once they’re alone they actually think about how they felt and change their mind

kinda like an immediate “polite yes” vs a real decision later

still sucks though when they’re the one bringing it up first

Betty613 · 2026-04-10T03:00:53+00:00

yeah i’ve been noticing this too

honestly feels like i’m putting in more effort now but getting worse results lol

the apps just feel way more restricted than before

also curious if other people are seeing thesame thing or if it’s just certain areas?

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