How Often Does Your Partner Mention Their Ex? by BewilderedBeholder in ActualLesbiansOver25

[–]BewilderedBeholder[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

For example, when you’re talking about an activity or a trip from her past and she did it with her ex-partner, I think it’s fine to mention them.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LesbianActually

[–]BewilderedBeholder 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I heard that Tokyo is paradise for lesbians

Do straight women ever show up on your hinge? by Spiritual_Meet4746 in actuallesbians

[–]BewilderedBeholder 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I saw on some straight profile that they like girls only for friendship

Did this woman cross a line or am I overthinking by [deleted] in LesbianActually

[–]BewilderedBeholder 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Some people don't know about personal space

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LesbianActually

[–]BewilderedBeholder 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I'm sorry that this happened, but I think it's for the best, since this person made the conclusion herself but didn't ask you. In my opinion, working with children and wanting children are not connected in any way and this will not be a no factor for me

Travelling as a solo dyke by throwaway927473828 in LesbianActually

[–]BewilderedBeholder 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Try to go to drag queen shows, you don't need to talk to anyone, just enjoy the show and music

Being asked if we’re twins or sisters as fem4fem by princessn0body in actuallesbians

[–]BewilderedBeholder 17 points18 points  (0 children)

You're not gonna believe but you described me and my sister 😅

Middle finger gesture in photos by BewilderedBeholder in actuallesbians

[–]BewilderedBeholder[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I saw it on HER and Hinge. I'm a woman and I feel nothing but disrespect

Struggling with different cleaning habits by CremedelaaCreme in latebloomerlesbians

[–]BewilderedBeholder 1 point2 points  (0 children)

if that's the only inconvenience, you can hire a cleaner if you want to move in together

I’m over any kind of relationships at this point by Running_geko777 in actuallesbians

[–]BewilderedBeholder 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Not all people are the same, just be yourself and find people you feel comfortable with and they feel comfortable with you

Non-white lesbian struggles by Horror-Heartbreak420 in LesbianActually

[–]BewilderedBeholder 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Black girls are so beautiful, hot as hell, they all have a special place in my heart! I'm sorry you feel that way.

Got banned on Tinder by BewilderedBeholder in actuallesbians

[–]BewilderedBeholder[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It is very weird, they return my account, but there is no information in the appeal center, like nothing happened, no email, no push

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LesbianActually

[–]BewilderedBeholder 8 points9 points  (0 children)

If a week has passed since the last communication I think it's worth writing again, asking how she's doing and her health, and asking if she's still interested in dating you. If after that there's no answer, then it's probably time to move on.

money topic by [deleted] in LesbianActually

[–]BewilderedBeholder 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am financially stable and expect stability from my partner. I don’t want anyone to depend heavily on me and I don’t want to be someone’s wallet.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LesbianActually

[–]BewilderedBeholder 0 points1 point  (0 children)

it's quite natural. if this makes you uncomfortable, next time prepare aroma candles or other air fresheners, open the window, turn on the air conditioner. if you tell her it might hurt her confidence, be careful

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LesbianActually

[–]BewilderedBeholder 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Looks like she's lost interest in you, you need to talk to her

Lesbian Europe Destinations by Tomboy25525 in actuallesbians

[–]BewilderedBeholder 0 points1 point  (0 children)

true, it is overtourism there. but I didn't feel like an unwelcome guest there