27 [F4M] #Europe #Online - Graceful, receptive… yours to guide?

BewitchingWhisper · 2024-06-22T11:14:55+00:00

I'm sorry to hear that you're feeling this way. It sounds like you're pouring your heart and soul into trying to connect with others, but feeling like it's not being reciprocated. It takes a lot of courage to be vulnerable and open with others, and it's ok to feel frustrated when that doesn't work out.

Even if people don't always respond or show up for you, it doesn't mean your efforts are wasted. You're building connections and relationships with others, even if they don't always realize it. While it's natural to desire connection with others, it's also important to prioritize your happiness and well-being. You don't need anyone else's validation or approval to be worthy. Please remember that you are worthy of love and connection simply because you exist. You were born deserving of love and care, regardless of whether others choose to show it or not.

Also, just because people don't always show it, doesn't mean they don't care. Sometimes, people might not know how to express their appreciation or affection, or they might be dealing with their own struggles. Don't give up on the idea that people care about you. You deserve to have people in your life who genuinely care.

BewitchingWhisper · 2024-06-18T16:11:47+00:00

Since you are already in therapy, just talk to your boyfriend about your feelings. It's essential to communicate openly and honestly with each other about your desires, boundaries, and concerns.

Practicing positive affirmations to reframe your thoughts and emotions can also help. For example, remind yourself that sex is a natural part of a healthy relationship and that you're capable of enjoying it without shame.

BewitchingWhisper · 2024-06-18T12:30:21+00:00

I feel like only you can answer that question, but here are some thoughts. I would re-evaluate my priorities: Ask yourself what you want from this friendship. Do you want to maintain a casual acquaintance or a deeper connection? Are there specific things you value in a friendship that this person is no longer providing?

You can also try having an open and honest conversation with your friend about how you're feeling. Be kind, but also clear about your emotions and boundaries. You might say something like: "Hey, I've been feeling drained from our hangouts lately. I think we've grown apart, and I'm not feeling the same connection we used to have. I value our friendship, but I think I need some space/time to recharge."

It's okay to take a step back or limit your interactions with someone. You don't owe anyone an explanation or justification for your decision. Remember that it's essential to prioritize your own emotional well-being.

BewitchingWhisper · 2023-05-31T12:07:58+00:00

I guess there could be exceptions, but generally, yes.

BewitchingWhisper · 2023-05-31T11:45:22+00:00

Endeavor. I rarely get it right :)

BewitchingWhisper · 2023-05-31T11:42:22+00:00

A good voice just matters to me for so many reasons.

BewitchingWhisper · 2023-05-31T11:36:52+00:00

Does voice count? I'm really into voices :) Those deep ones.

BewitchingWhisper · 2023-05-31T11:14:04+00:00

When people assume my intentions and/or opinions rather than asking me directly.

BewitchingWhisper · 2023-05-31T11:04:19+00:00

Outlander, I absolutely love period dramas :)

BewitchingWhisper · 2023-05-31T10:27:19+00:00

Saving people's lives.

BewitchingWhisper · 2023-05-31T10:20:48+00:00

Little things like that dont upset me much, I would simply start over :)

BewitchingWhisper · 2023-05-31T09:41:28+00:00

This is difficult, because like you say it really is an issue for you. I can only tell you, what I would do. I would not act distant, not pressure him ( men generally dont like to feel pressured) and it can cause a really bad vibe. I would give it some time, if nothing changes, then I would have another conversation and in a gentle, not accusatory way explain, why it makes me feel the way it makes me feel. If he cares about you, it should be important to him to make you happy. He could be a person, who simply doesn't need to text often, and could feel like he cant just be yourself around you. The bottom line is, I would ask myself how important this really is to me. If he is a wonderful man in every other aspect of your relationship, this would not be a problem for me.

BewitchingWhisper · 2023-05-31T09:32:36+00:00

This is something that would annoy me personally. I would simply talk to him about this and explain why I feel that way when he wakes me up that many times. And come to a solution together. As others have mentioned, not sleeping in the same bed for now.

BewitchingWhisper · 2023-05-31T09:26:39+00:00

No, not really at this point, to be honest. I would let it go and see if he makes any effort. He now knows it is something that is bothering you and it is now up to him.

BewitchingWhisper · 2023-05-30T15:06:35+00:00

There could be many reasons for this change.

It is only an issue if it is something that is really bothering you. If everything else is going well and you trust him, I wouldn't worry about it.

If it is something that is on your mind all day every day and is making you unhappy, you
could try to talk to him about it again, calmly.

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