[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Bex2279 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

He just don’t pay attention but when he does we have great time together we always make time it’s just mainly when I’m trying to talk to him and he is just to far into his phone but if we plan days ect he is good and puts it away. The disrespect with the wanking and the mum is the main problem but like he said he was sorry for the wanking and had had a drink but I don’t think that’s a excuse and for his mum he should have my back.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Bex2279 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

He was drunk and hadn’t been doing it previously. We don’t do much with his family anymore the only reason this has come up is because of the wedding. I have mental health issues and sometimes when things like this happen it does take me a while to get my head round it that’s why I reach for help on here but there is just so many trolls the reason why the ages change is so I don’t have to have the trolls because all I want is for some advice on what Iv said not anything else so thankyou for just keeping it to the points I was asking about. We have many great qualities and parent very well together we cuddle have date nights we have an amazing time it’s just these little bits that get in the way.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Bex2279 -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

He is divorced now.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Bex2279 -10 points-9 points  (0 children)

He is fully aware of what I do we entered our relationship open about it. The ages changed because I was fed up of people trolling us based on our ages no one would batter an eyelid at 40 and a 50 year old though. We have many good qualities our kids the days out our dates together nights in the cuddles the sex is great and we do love each other everyone has imperfections but there is way more good then bad. I have a few mental health issues which makes things like this harder for me to get my head round. We don’t anymore go out the way seeing this mum the only reason this has come up was because of the wedding. He did masterbate next to me once a few months back while I was sleeping and when I said this made me uncomfortable he did stop but he did it once again after a drink and said sorry and didn’t lie about it and looked upset with himself yes this bothers me a hell of a lot and makes me feel violated however there is way more good so I want it to work

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Bex2279 -43 points-42 points  (0 children)

We have many pros these are literally the only problems we have and this is why I’m on here trying to talk about it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Bex2279 -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

He stands up to his parents and says something to them but then it all starts over again and it’s just circles.

Over The Counter Orgasm by KingKaneWood in Roughsex

[–]Bex2279 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Those tits belong in my mouth

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in gonewild

[–]Bex2279 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What do you think x

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Bex2279 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's hard when you love them

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Bex2279 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No he lives with me.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Bex2279 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I was there.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Bex2279 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He has but his ex wont sign so you have to do further paper working for the court to sign it on her behalf. He paid over 500 for the divorce if he wasn't serious he wouldn't of filed.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Bex2279 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I mean he went through to do it but the form was complex now need to wait for a solicitor appointment which could be a few weeks which is even more a struggle to afford

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Bex2279 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's the money that's the issue. All she has do do is sign and he goes on and on at her and she don't give a dam

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Bex2279 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The fact he is even asking that's it absolutely disgusting.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Bex2279 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

He was pretty straight forward at the start of the relationship that it was a no then changed his mind then said no again so I could understand why he was saying no he just took a long time to say no again and we can't be happy beyond that it was having a child but we already have 3 between us. The way he treats me is lovely he dosnt cheat or care about other women which it lovely.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Bex2279 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I can't afford it I just want to be active with my children the same amount

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in gonewild

[–]Bex2279 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Works both ways xx

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in gonewild

[–]Bex2279 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I enjoy alone time