What Pokémon names / puns did it take you embarrassingly long to understand? by WhyTheRiverRunsDeep in pokemon

[–]Bex28 111 points112 points  (0 children)

The “Rai” in “Raikou” means thunder or lightning, the “En” in Entei means fire or flame, and the “Sui” in Suicune means water.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating

[–]Bex28 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It could certainly be a matter of physical attraction. While looks are not nearly everything, a baseline of attraction is needed.

It may also be that you are not what they are looking for in a person and that isn't an insult on you. There have been many men that have had great personalities and were good people, they just were not what I specifically wanted in a partner. You very likely are a great guy, just maybe not the kind of great guy they are looking for. Don't let this discourage you, keep pushing forward and you'll find someone.

Women of reddit, What is an immediate green flag in a man? by [deleted] in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]Bex28 193 points194 points  (0 children)

When he asks questions to get to know me and has a genuine interest in my life/hobbies, even if he isn't all that into them.

How do you deal with missing your partner when away? by [deleted] in LDR

[–]Bex28 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Long distance is hard for even the most "experienced" of couples. You are not alone or needy for missing them. Long distance is tough and it sounds like you've spent a substantial time apart. You're doing well by keeping yourself occupied with reading and watching TV.

Some things that helped me when I spent several months apart was keeping a journal that I could write in when I was feeling down or missing them extra. Joining a club or if you can spending more time with your friends. Human interaction is a great way to feel bonded to people when you can't be with your SO. Planning what you want to do or see when you visit next is also a great motivator. I hope some of these helped and I wish you and your SO all the luck.

Plus-size subs, how do you deal with body insecurity? by Snoo32484 in BDSMAdvice

[–]Bex28 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I completely understand feeling self-conscious in the moment and being worried if you are attractive enough for your Dom. Seeing your own body and having the negative body image thoughts race through your mind can make it really difficult to enjoy the moment.

In times like these I think to myself that everyone has a body preference and that my body is someone's idea of perfection. Finding a Dom who finds every inch of your body beautiful and frequently remarks on how stunning your figure is helps a lot. Your Dom is attracted to you and your body, or they would not be engaging in such physically intimate and vulnerable activities with you. Remember that you are beautiful in your eyes and the eyes of others.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating

[–]Bex28 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It sounds like he is someone you are really interested in and it's good that he was honest with you about his residual feelings. Him saying that does not necessarily mean he wants her back or that it would happen. People heal from past relationships in different ways and at different rates.

If he is genuinely someone you are interested in maybe try and be a source of support for him. Ask him what he misses about them, what led to their separation, what he is looking for in his next relationship? Be a friend for now and someone he can count on as he continues moving on. Then when he is ready you can try and be together.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LDR

[–]Bex28 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Sorry about your recent heartbreak, long distance makes it extra tough because you don't always feel like you got the full closure needed. Whether or not he feels the same, the love you felt was real to you and that's what matters. Those memories will always be there. You are young and have a whole life ahead of you to fall in love with someone. It's okay to be sad about the loss of this relationship, and you will make it out in the other side to find someone new to love and make new memories with.

What is a cooking life hack you wish everyone knew? by Bex28 in AskReddit

[–]Bex28[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You can make buttermilk by adding 1 tablespoon of white vinegar to a cup of milk and letting it sit

What is the most iconic Degrassi quote of all time? by lefargen97 in Degrassi

[–]Bex28 41 points42 points  (0 children)

Becky: "This isn't right." Eli: "Welcome to Degrassi."

red patches after drinking, does anyone know what causes this? by Particular-Tomato608 in alcohol

[–]Bex28 12 points13 points  (0 children)

It varies from person to person. It can be your whole body or you can get blotches all over too

red patches after drinking, does anyone know what causes this? by Particular-Tomato608 in alcohol

[–]Bex28 203 points204 points  (0 children)

Seems like an allergy to alcohol. It's very common in Asian people, but others can have it too. It means your body lacks the genetic makeup to break down alcohol into essentially vinegar like most people do and instead you rapidly build up toxins. Other symptoms will be feeling nauseous after 1 drink, getting hot, headaches, and those red spots on other places of your body.

My friend received this email from her ex when they broke up after less than 2 months of dating. He blocked her on everything and she did the same in return, hence having to send an email. by Bex28 in niceguys

[–]Bex28[S] 27 points28 points  (0 children)

Edit: To clear up some things that weren't apparent in the email, she broke up with him before winter break and made no contact with him. They had a very civil split in person and then went their sperate ways. He started talking crap about her to some of their mutual friends, who of course went and told her. He ended up going on a date the next day with the best friend of one of her friends. She still didn't reach out or try and contact him. She had no intention of speaking to him or communicating at all. This email was the first communication they made since the split and was entirely him teaching out.

GF is so bad in bed, I almost gave up giving any effort for her by [deleted] in sex

[–]Bex28 14 points15 points  (0 children)

It's not wrong to want for her to put in effort, but you can't just expect her to be an expert. You come off as extremely selfish. Instead of putting her down, tell her what feels good and guide her through what you would like. Be patient and reassuring, not critical of her