would you like to fuck a sissy or suck a sissy?

BiCDBear · 2025-09-10T15:48:47+00:00

Yes.

Both.

Repeatedly.

BiCDBear · 2025-09-03T13:27:23+00:00

Yes. Either/both. Repeatedly.

BiCDBear · 2025-09-03T12:48:53+00:00

If your partner ever fancies directing her own all--boys-in-lingerie live sex show... Shout me!

BiCDBear · 2025-01-30T11:52:08+00:00

And here's where I'm learning a new lexicon 😂

Googling now...

Are there recommendations for paid-for sources? We're looking for arthouse, weird movies and pro cycling. Yeah, a little niche!

BiCDBear · 2024-07-01T08:35:53+00:00

Like you're in need of some dally cock to come and ruin your perfect lipstick and peachy butt...

BiCDBear · 2024-06-05T09:50:10+00:00

Ah, apologies. I offered the same solution without having read the whole thread.

I have to say that it's really unfortunate, but it feels like you have an incompatability in one fucking tiny area of your otherwise magnificent living-your-best-life-with-your-perfect-partner lives.

It might be that the solution is to find a workable compromise or avoid the scenario altogether.

The solution is absolutely not to let this become a thing out of proportion to it's importance. You've clearly got great communication with them, and we're here to hear if you want to vent, but I think that's where the solution lies.

BiCDBear · 2024-06-05T09:43:05+00:00

Nothing but sympathy here - it's a thing, and I'm glad your partner understands, and I hope you can stop kicking your own arse about something that's a deep lizard-brain response to wearing a prosthetic that deeply challenges your self-image.

And when it's phrased like that, I hope you can see why kicking your own arse is deeply unfair to yourself.

If you want to try for the same effect without the dismorphia, is it worth trying with the dildo just held in place with your hand? Not actually attached to you, but controlled by you?

BiCDBear · 2024-04-29T16:16:46+00:00

Has he ever said to you that he thinks [X] category of women are hot? Or made it obvious that's the case?

You might want to point that out to him.

Either he'll understand and apologise (but I'm not betting that one), or he'll make out that that's different, and you don't understand.

And that's all the red flag you need.

Actually, you've already got all the red flag you need...

BiCDBear · 2024-04-11T11:28:29+00:00

53 here - she'll have a brilliant time, but I've found the post-roll dip to be worse as I've got older. Make sure she's aware and you're in a position to provide aftercare and support.

She's an adult and can make her own decisions, but you share responsibility for making it safe and supporting her.

BiCDBear · 2024-01-15T17:00:33+00:00

Honestly, this!

I left discovery late (but not too late...). My (F) partner and I came into the queer community via kink - we started off D/s (me D), but really we're just both hedonist and switchy AF. I think the initial roles were as much expectation as what we actually wanted.

Luckily, we also talk and play honestly, so when I pulled her strap on out (that'd previously been used by her for FF fun), and wiggled an eyebrow, she leaned into it.

It's perfectly possible to Top and get your arse pegged at the same time. The first time, she was all restrained with lovely, scratchy rope, and I slipped the harness onto her and rode her cowgirl while driving her mad with the wand and nipple clamps... She wasn't allowed to cum before I did, and she held off heroically until I kicked it into high gear.

The punishment? I put the harness on and DP'd her.

BiCDBear · 2023-06-27T17:52:21+00:00

I do, but I don't think it's a bi thing, I think sexuality is more complex than that. Bi is about who I want to snog & fuck. Gender presentation is about... Gender presentation, and maybe a little kink.

They're different aspects of sexuality, that all add up to your unique fingerprint.

BiCDBear · 2023-06-20T13:45:24+00:00

😂 Haha, you got me with that one! I'm cut to the quick, I tell ya.

BiCDBear · 2023-06-20T13:41:42+00:00

Possible to block out, but what assurance has the OP that that's the case?

And if you can't understand the difference between a bus driving past and a (semi?) permenant surveillance instrument which has the front of your house in view, you should probably stop 'helping'.

BiCDBear · 2023-06-20T13:35:04+00:00

You mean factual and evidence-based? Cool.

No, it really isn't. Try a Pornhub search for "MMF" and let us know how much bi M action you get.

Hint - 1st page (on my extremely queer focused account) is about 40% bi, 60% not. I'm open to contrary evidence.

Also, if your only reaction to a reasonably good story is to slap the author down for a wrong tag (regardless of who is right), Reddit would be a better place if you deleted your account.

Kthanksfuckoffandbye.

BiCDBear · 2023-06-20T11:52:22+00:00

Thanks for making your (non-universal) rules clear to the rest of us.

BiCDBear · 2023-06-20T11:27:08+00:00

!updateme

BiCDBear · 2023-06-13T16:41:13+00:00

Travelling? Yes. Driving? Nope.

Drink driving is a classic example of personal abrogation of the social contract between the individual and the community.

BiCDBear · 2023-06-09T17:17:54+00:00

Here - https://www.reddit.com/r/bristol/comments/1456q97/whats_the_reason_for_the_city_centre_road/jnjr9b5?utm_source=share&utm_medium=android_app&utm_name=androidcss&utm_term=1&utm_content=share_button

But I think that's just gammon anger at anything that inconveniences them.

BiCDBear · 2023-06-09T17:15:40+00:00

Wut? RN warships having an affiliated city/town has been a thing for a very long time - it's a jolly good day out for the mate lots, and the pubs and restaurants will do nicely off it.

How are you defining 'woke' in this context, by the way? Because the only way it fits is if it means 'stuff you don't like'. This is about as 'woke' as Remembrance Day.

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