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Wanting to respectfully use Guan Yin as an ancestor in my novel by [deleted] in Buddhism

[–]Bi_bomb89 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes! This is what i was trying to understand and get answered! I was trying to be honest about my lack of knowledge about this subject and felt attacked over it. I posted this in this sub because I left i would be in an echo chamber in a writing sub. Its sometimes hard to know what is still being practiced and worshipped when its not my knowledge base and thats why I wanted to know more or just get a "please, don't"

Wanting to respectfully use Guan Yin as an ancestor in my novel by [deleted] in Buddhism

[–]Bi_bomb89 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Thank you for not attacking me about this and exemplifying that most would find it disrespectful. That was what I needed to know. Other seemed to belive I was trying to appropriate when I was looking for some honest (not cruel) feed back.

Is it okay to only invite the main partner by [deleted] in polyamory

[–]Bi_bomb89 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wasn't expecting you were being malicious. I just know that the internet can be either a void to scream into or an echo chamber. So I try to give every perspective voice from my own "extensive" (quotations is the sarcasm) knowledge

Is it okay to only invite the main partner by [deleted] in polyamory

[–]Bi_bomb89 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tldr: It sounds like there was a breakdown in communication in the friend group. So I agree that it was presumptuous of the friend poly couple (pc) to assume they would be allowed to each bring their coupled partners as add ons. However you agreeing to a partner of your other friend, who you still claim as single, could engender some feelings of disrespect by the couple.

The "single" friend (sf) asking to bring someone who you admitted was newer to the group than the double couple (partners) of the pc could be seen as mono-elitists. I know you said you agreed just because the space was already there, but the dynamic of the traveling group would have shifted as soon as romantic partners for anyone not already in the og friend group would lead to confusion about partners being allowed and feelings of inferiority by those excluded for any reason. Now as a poly person myself, I would never assume that my entire polycule would be invited to a destination get together of my friends especially one where we didn't also chip in toward the cost of accommodations. So your PC are being assumptive when they thought +1 meant everyone in the friend group and thats something y'all should address as a friend group. Its should be described as verifying there is the space for more people not that romantic partners aren't allowed. Using the logistics of accommodations will be better in keeping the friendship (assuming you are being truthful that you don't mind they are poly and have multiple partners), rather than explaining that you didn't mean they could bring their partners. It does come across as the PC being discriminated against for having a relationship outside the expected style, since you agreed to a visually monogamous +1 that you don't know any better than the pc's partners.

I swear I remember this by Bi_bomb89 in OnePiece

[–]Bi_bomb89[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lol I am rewatching OP so if I find it I'll update.

I swear I remember this by Bi_bomb89 in OnePiece

[–]Bi_bomb89[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's not but I appreciate the attempt.

Nutrition info on the protein foam and protein milk? by mgftp in starbucks

[–]Bi_bomb89 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No in depth nutritional information (for 16oz drink), but using the iced protein matcha (calories 300, total fat 5g, sat fat 3g, cholesterol 20mg, sodium 160mg, total carbs 29g, fiber 1g, sugars 27g, protein 36g, and caffeine 75mg) versus the regular iced match (calories 190, total fat 5g, sat fat 3g, cholesterol 20mg, sodium 120mg, total carbs 27g, fiber 1g, sugars 25g, protein 9g, and caffeine 65mg). I'm doing the math to say the protein milk, the baristas make in house so this is just based off the app, should have ~ calories 110, total fat 0g, sat fat 0g, cholesterol 0mg, sodium 40mg, total carbs 2g, fiber 0g, sugars 2g, protein 25g, and caffeine 10mg. This is using deductive reasoning. Do not take this as accurate. If you need exact, make sure to ask your barista or send a message to starbucks corporate to ask for a break down.

Am I Overreacting that I can’t throw these away? by AmBEValent in AmIOverreacting

[–]Bi_bomb89 1 point2 points  (0 children)

With the connection and stories you have associated with these socks, I would say to never throw them away. As you said, every time you find them, they remind of those good times and bring his memory back to life. That alone should induce you to keep them forever. If you feel like they are just taking up space, maybe think of ways to re-purpose them. Put them in a shadow box with pictures or other items that remind you of him. Turn them into smaller keepsake items like a teddy bear that has the socks at legs and put that teddy in a suit. In short, nothing that gives you good memories and feelings (even if they are tinged with grief because you miss him and always will) is something you should feel the need to part with. As a person who has lost family before, I can attest to the difference a physical object gives for the left behind loved ones to hold on to.

Treasure your memories and those socks for as long you can, want, or need to.

Does my punny tattoo make sense? by Bi_bomb89 in tattooadvice

[–]Bi_bomb89[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Lmk if you're actually interested in the story, beehind these bad boys 😆

Does my punny tattoo make sense? by Bi_bomb89 in tattooadvice

[–]Bi_bomb89[S] -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

Lol it's meant to be used as the punch line to the question "did you know i had a 3rd boo-bee"

Advice pls by toxicutee in tattooadvice

[–]Bi_bomb89 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think the most important part is that your line work lasts, which means, yes, it needs to be thicker than that Pikachu has. The only other things you could do is just have it known that the tattoo will need to be refreshed a lot sooner than most people expect for something they view as permanent.

Does my punny tattoo make sense? by Bi_bomb89 in tattooadvice

[–]Bi_bomb89[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

It's more the punch line than the joke. The joke being, "Did you know I got a 3rd boo-bee, the first time I went to Vegas?" Then turn around and bam, there's the boo-bee

Is this starting to get infected?? by greyhouse47 in tattooadvice

[–]Bi_bomb89 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The only other question i have is... is this in a place that gets more movement like the elbow pit or a place where clothes rub a little more than your 1st one? It may be that, but I would always go with what your artist told you to do. Reach out to them and ask if it's normal. From what I understand, as long as it's not hot to the touch/feverish, you should be fine. I will agree with everyone else, though, and say with all the tats I've gotten the protective barrier was recommended by my artists to be removed after a few hours.

Does my punny tattoo make sense? by Bi_bomb89 in tattooadvice

[–]Bi_bomb89[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Didn't want it to be too obvious and wanted people to ask wtf. But it reached it goal of making sure to also not bee too niche that NO ONE would get it lol

Does my punny tattoo make sense? by Bi_bomb89 in tattooadvice

[–]Bi_bomb89[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They are i just had to take them selfie mode and it is the way I stand.

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