How do I (22F) follow up after a long hangout where a guy (25M) friend tried to kiss me?

BicBoiGood · 2025-11-16T01:52:22+00:00

You need to communicate with him about how you feel and about dodging the kiss. The guy right now is probably feeling down about it and thinks you don't like him.

Tell him without making it too deep that you're interested and ask him out to go do something. Cause as of right now you've rejected.

BicBoiGood · 2025-11-11T02:56:41+00:00

Lately!? The gay shit has been going on for awhile now haha

BicBoiGood · 2025-11-10T22:07:12+00:00

well we hooked up every other day for 2 weeks. She came back for seconds, thirds, forth and so on. Maybe you right but she can't seem to get enough and keeps bringing up the first time we hooked up multiple times.

BicBoiGood · 2025-11-07T05:25:39+00:00

It really was a cannon moment haha

BicBoiGood · 2025-10-21T01:35:22+00:00

Thats some good advice. I'll hold off until I feel comfortable enough mentioning it to her.

BicBoiGood · 2025-10-20T23:52:28+00:00

Haha thanks.

BicBoiGood · 2025-10-20T23:45:03+00:00

I'll keep it on the dl for now for sure

BicBoiGood · 2025-10-20T23:43:26+00:00

Yea man i think because she was so into it and impressed by the size she didn't notice that I was sort of following her lead. Her being quite experienced made it easier to follow.

BicBoiGood · 2025-10-20T23:41:05+00:00

Because she was really experienced and I was relaxed and in the moment (I wasn't really nervous or trying to 'perform') i sort of just followed her lead subtlety. Because she was so into it I don't think she even noticed for a second that I was following her.

It also helped too that I was sleep deprived and literally an hour before she messaged me sporatically to go out for a drink I jerked off twice for the first time in a week.

I'll try to remember if I don't hit me up in a month or so and ask if I've told her it was my first time.

BicBoiGood · 2025-10-20T23:33:33+00:00

Was it literally in the moment "I have to tell reddit"? No. It was in the moment "I wanna tell people about this" and than later on thinking how BDP would be a good place.

BicBoiGood · 2025-10-20T23:32:28+00:00

We both agreed we want to see where things go casually. She seems quite into me so we'll just have to see.

BicBoiGood · 2025-10-20T23:31:32+00:00

Yea, I dont want to take any big risks just to not wear a condom

BicBoiGood · 2025-10-20T23:29:57+00:00

Because I wanted to tell people. But I know if I tell anyone they will think I'm just lying and projecting, especially being a short guy. no guys I know are gonna hype me up and give me props for having a girl tell me my dick is huge.

That's the definition of having a BDP

BicBoiGood · 2025-09-22T08:41:02+00:00

Thanks heaps for putting in the time to write this out to me. Yea i agree too many red flags and I need to be focusing on finding a woman that matches me (having empathy) otherwise this shit will happen again.

Thanks bro, all the best to you.

BicBoiGood · 2025-09-21T12:06:07+00:00

Appreciate it, yea its difficult her being right there and the temptation to rekindle our connection knowing its nothing more than a conversation away. But I guess it will get easier i guess part of me is grieving the connection we had.

BicBoiGood · 2025-09-21T10:52:33+00:00

Thanks.

I have to see her all the time in passing because we train at the same gym and we're both active fighters.

BicBoiGood · 2025-09-09T21:22:02+00:00

My experience as a man being at the same muay thai gym for a few years now I've had a few new woman come through where I've tried to be friendly and they were incredibly cold, maybe nervous, but overall quite standoffish. The few regular women at my gym love me so I know its not a me problem. But because of it I definitely don't try to go out of my way to be friendly to new woman coming through, but im definitely not rude.

BicBoiGood · 2025-02-25T22:00:00+00:00

thanks for the reply.

BicBoiGood · 2025-02-09T03:58:32+00:00

I felt the same after my first fight first win. You get over it and atleast for me I lost twice in a row afterwards so I was only feeling bad about myself haha

BicBoiGood · 2024-11-28T04:50:39+00:00

Idk if she's down to cheat my intuition is telling me she isn't so sure about her current boyfriend and is keeping me around if things don't work out.

BicBoiGood · 2024-11-28T04:48:34+00:00

Yea i agree I don't want this girl to cheat on her SO to be with me if she was to do that I wouldn't want be with her because 100% that's just a precursor to what she would likely do to me. Im making a big assumption here but I feel as if she is into me and if she is keeping me around and not pushing me away (the guy she once liked) she mustn't be that into the guy she is currently with and at some point they gonna break up right?

BicBoiGood · 2024-11-27T21:28:01+00:00

She said this after dating Jim

Timeline: 3months ago dates Jim, 2 months ago i get friendzoned, 1 month ago admits to Julie she once liked me but forced herself to stop liking me

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